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Ok ladies and gentleman... especially those of you with some years of experience and relationship experience. No offense to the 18-24 year olds, but they think a bit differently than us 30+

I will quickly give you background on my relationship with this girl. I met her 6 months ago in a professional work environment and gave her my business card to call me. She contacted me 2 weeks later and we met for coffee.. We proceeded to meet several times where I began to feel even more attraction to her and I kept hitting on her. She told me because I was married that she was reluctant to date me. She put me in "The Friend Zone".. We went out a few times and I didn't give up. Long story short, she and I came to a head one day when I was pressuring her to go out with me and she said "Sam, I don't feel an attraction to you that way, and I'm still getting over my ex who I loved a lot and went with for 5 years, I have no room in my heart for you!"

I walked away for 5 days with no contact and then one day, she blew up my cellphone with texts wanting to see me. We began to date and had sex that night.. She seemed to enjoy our time together and as friends we got on great! The sex was amazing, we did some very nasty things that we both enjoyed and first time for both of us! She then began to tell me she just wants to be "Friends with Benefits" as she just doesn't love me the way I seem to be into her!

After about two months of dating, her sister who is a total head case and lives in Salt Lake City with their parents found out about us and told her parents. My girl is 32, and the sister is 35.. has 4 kids and her husband abandoned her.. she seems miserable and continues to go to my girl (her younger sister) for support and friendship... they're on the phone all the time and texting non-stop! The sister told the parents (who are both ministers in a church) about

Last year, she met this guy and they must have been really close. But the guy stopped talking to her and maybe had problems with his ex. I'm not really sure. Anyways, the girl I like was hurt when this guy stopped talking to her and it been over a year and she isn't over him. He will text her sometimes or see her in school but thats like every few months according to her. She says she wants to get over him and she will once he graduates.
When I ask if she still liked him, she told me it was complicated.

Now I really like this girl. We text each other a lot. She comes and talks to me if she has drama in her life whether it with family or friends or that guy. I haven't even known her for too long, Id say around a month.
We goof around a lot like she will take my stuff and sit on it, bite my arm lightly if try to get it back. We have a lot in common and she hangs out with me a lot but its usually school related. We Skype each other sometimes at night just to talk. I asked her what kind of guys she liked and of couse the other guy nailed every point while i nailed like 1 and half lol. But she says im funny, really nice and smart

She told me she wasn't interested in getting married or being in a relationship and just wants to graduate and leave the city we live in.

I don't know what to do, I feel like she's not over that guy and she only sees me as good friend. I have flirted with her and it seems like sometimes she's flirting back but maybe im just misunderstanding.