Ok so me and my ex had been dating for 7 months when we broke up. I am currently 7 months pregnant and we've been broken up for a month now. He woke up one day acting completely different and distant. I asked him what was wrong but he said he was just stressed. He started going out drinking and being with his family more. I finally understood that he had probably fallen out of love with me. I don't know why but he did, maybe another girl, family issues, etc. He told me that I make him unhappy and that we were better off without each other. We were together on and off for 3 years and had planned on getting married and having a baby. He picked a ring out and starting using pills to make his sperm count higher. He said he wanted to be in our daughters life no matter what. So he wants the child but the mother. I feel like an incubator. This wasn't unplanned and he seemed so happy when I told him. Then one after we broke up, he turned around and said he doesn't think y the baby is his. I NEVER cheated so this hurt very much. We lived together but he's moving out, putting his stuff in storage, and staying with his sister... isn't that a little much? He blames me for our breakup saying I stopped loving him, I changed, I started hating him, I never listened to his problems etc. I was never told about these issues at the time and if so I'm pregnant and my mind is constantly on the baby and work. I just wanted my pregnancy to be one of the happiest times in my life and to share it with the one i started it with. Now it's full of stress and heartbreak. I just don't understand what I did so wrong to have the man i was building a future with leave me...
- Should i move on and leave him alone?Vote A
- Should i wait and give it time and try again?Vote B
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I'd like to start off by saying I'm sorry for what he did to you. He sounds like an irresponsible asshole. Unfortunately, a lot of BOYS these days do as your ex did. They acts as if you are their future, then they knock you up and leave. He will most likely not be their for your daughter/son and probably won't pay child support. I don't know why guys do it, but they do and it's heartbreaking. I hope that you can provide your child with the best possible future you can. You will have to be strong for the both of you. I hope that you find the man you're meant to be with who will treat you and your child with unconditional love and respect. I wish you the best.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE