Why do women trap men with babies and getting pregnant?

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I’m noticing women have babies on purpose with men to trap them. I hear stories of women complaining of guy or how they act or how they cheated and then fast she’s pregnant. One girl I know was cheated on few times by her husband but once that happened she fast had a lot sex with him and got pregnant 2x. So now she has 3 kids. Do women do this to make a guy stay? Having more n more sex? I go out to the stores and daily all I see is ALL women next to a boyfriend and baby. I’m not happy with the guy i date but I realize it’s too late & im stuck with him & has his baby. No wonder I can’t get a new boyfriend cuz all women are having babies with bfs no marriage. Sex and baby keeps a guy. Another women I know she was cheated on by her husband & she fast got pregnant soon after. Why you don’t break up with him stupid whore? And just have sex with a new random guy? Then having more sex with a cheater & just divorce him? I’m going to have to do the same have baby next year & trap him learn from all the women.

razelove · Accepted Answer

Wow, you have a lot of anger. It's your age range more than baby traps. Women your age are getting baby fever. Generally you have them with your partner, and while marriage would be ideal, most guys don't want to go for it, and women buy that crap with the whole independent woman deal.

The "baby trap" is a double edged sword. You tie a man to you, you're tied to him, but only as long as you don't cross his bottom line. A new identity can be bought, the price is giving up on the old you. It's gnawing off that leg to get out of the trap. Go on a boat to another country, come back on another boat as a different person. You can even keep your old identity as long as you own nothing on it, have no income, or address. It's tough to collect child support on someone who can't be subpoenaed, has no income, or property to seize.

Never seen a homeless guy paying child support, though I have seen them get some free meals in a holding cell for non-payment before.

CallmeTheKnight · Accepted Answer

They're evil. They can reap the benefits of child support or some kind of financial benefit. Or the men are just gullible and notice any red flags in the women before they sleep with them.

At the end of the day, it keeps the men around and possibly unavailable for other women, provided if he's a catch.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Hmmmm I don’t believe there’s such thing as “trapping someone” unless if someone is lying about being on birth control /poking holes in condoms etc. It takes two to have a child and honestly you need to try to have children to have children. Using zero protection, him nutting inside , etc you are bound to get pregnant. Some people just don’t care about the consequences until the consequences actually happens

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

It's called..."Follow The Money"

Whatever2929292 · Answer

The same reason men use women for sex... Find a good Christian women and women find a good Christian man and there would not be half the problems. It is not moral to be sleeping around... So the moral compass of people who do is not very good

genericname85 · Answer

cause there's irresponsible girls who put their primal urge to procreate above finding a good partner. just like with men who don't give a shit about using a condom cause it doesn't feel as good.

Adaeva · Answer

I'm sure some girls do but I don't recommend it. What if she gets pregnant and it doesn't work? Then she is in fix.

Anonymous · Answer

Said no woman ever.  Just don’t have sex with women if you don’t want to be a dad. Simple and 100% percent effective. Good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

They trap alpha chad with babies because ifs their last effort to get him.

They trap the beta dudes with babies because she never really loved him just his money and now she has his money and can fuck other dudes

Anonymous · Answer

There are just too many stupid people in the world. Only have kids if you are married and love each other. Otherwise the kids grow up in rotten household when the parents despise each other.

Intothevoid666 · Answer

Because they’re insane and the law lets them it’s bullshit

Berethor · Answer

It's the baby trap trope.

JohnK123 · Answer

I got lost in the second part ngl haha

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

Good for you.

Anonymous · Answer

This is why I am waiting for marriage.

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