Search Results: feeling during a kiss

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that period we never crossed the line, but we still flirted intensely. Before those periods though, he use to touch me. During and before, he complimented me all the time. A year ago, we got matched up in the same classes after a year of being apart. He had his girl, I had my guy. I never really crossed the line because I felt that was unfair to my boyfriend, but my friends with benefits told me once that he saw us being in a relationship. We smoked together sometimes, once he told me he was hoping we'd just be shit faced and have an affair with eachother. He brought up motions of us being together. And shit.

I feel like he did that because he had his girl, so he felt safe saying that stuff, you know? But that's just my theory.

So my boyfriend and I split in January. He and his girlfriend in February . Soon after we kissed, and gradually moved up to sleeping with eachother.

Now. He NEVER brings up the thought of us together. He seems so terrified just at the thought of us being together. I can jokingly call him "Babe" and just in an instant he'd be like, "Don't call me that". Like relax man, I was just joking. LOL. But he calls other girls pet names jokingly, and has noooo problem with that.

I mean like. To be honest, the feelings have always been there. But I'm leaving for a four-year university in September. I'm sure it wouldn't work anyway. And he's one of my closest friends, so why do it if I'm gonna' probably end up losing him? I'm not attached to him. Usually when I have feelings it's like an obsession, but it's not like that with him. I just feel comfortable with him and the idea of not dating him doesn't phase me.

I have my theories, share yours. I like to hear other opinions.

I'm going to go see him tomorrow. Now that we graduated and no one's in our busniess, he'll probably be up front with me.

I've been with this guy for a little bit now. He was my best friend and now we're together. I'm moving to FL and for days I was crying about it. My boyfriend was always trying touch me down there while making out. I constantly pushed him away. One day I let him and since then I haven't felt the same towards him. I realize I still have feelings for my ex. I'm so confused as to why I still like someone who hurt me and used me and cheated on me... when there's someone who loves me and cares for me and who is willing to try to do a long distance relationship with me and make it work... he's faithful and loyal. I would never want to hurt him in anyway. My prom is coming up and I don't want these feelings to get in the way. My friend who is friends with my ex tells me all the time about how my ex tells her that he still has feelings for me and how he watches me when I'm with my boyfriend. I don't know if that's 100% true. I see my ex all the time especially on the way home... he lives around the corner from me. Sometimes I hear him play music in the backyard like "Where are ü now" by Justin Bieber Skrillex and Diplo... I feel like he's talking to me. Kinda cheesy I know. The other day he was walking behind me the entire way home and after that when I was in front of my house with my friend my ex came down my side of the block right where I was at. I catch him staring during class and lunch especially bc that's when I'm cuddling and kissing my boyfriend the most. I want my ex back but I also love my boyfriend. AND I'm moving to FL!!! I'll probably never see either of them again. HELP!!!

I have been in a relationship ship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Now he is 14 years older then me but it wasn't until last year you could tell. We used to habe sex all the time every day. But about 6 months into our relationship he would tell me I want it to much. We did still habe sex even if twice a week however During the winter months he coachs and is really stressed and busy along with being tired so our time doesn't exist. But in November he got sick which led to the virus going to his heart finally in February he was in the hospital for heart problems but released and undergoing cardio care since. Everyday he is getting better and being told by the cardio Dr just how much progress he has made and how he can live his life however when it comes to sex it doesn't exist and hasn't for almost 7 months because of everything and doesn't even come up.. even though for me I was always the more sexual person and I crave sex multiple times a day everyday and have been told by him before it's on my mind to much its been hard for me but I have adapted and I understand with the fears from the recent health issues etc but for me just going out on a date and not getting a compliment or him even truly looking at me like he wants me, or even when just a simple kiss doesn't exist it's just a peck and hugs don't exist to laying in bed he doesn't touch me and I don't mean dirty but just truly touch me I don't know how to feel. I hurt... physically, emotionally, and mentally. I talk to him but he doesn't want to hear it... tonight I explained I had a lot on my mind and am hurting and his response is oh here we go and he rolls over to go to sleep. I feel such a detachment in every way yet I am so in live with him. Am I losing it? I love this man with my whole heart but I hurt and I know he's going through a lot but I'm there every step of the way, every appt. And feel all I ask for is to see the love he says he has for me. I fell horrible and that maybe I'm being selfish. But I