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Heya, just wanted to get a few opinions and to see whether I am right or not.

I am a while male man living in Canada and have come across a variety of cultures when dating.

Now when I have a conversation with an Indian lady she seems extremely interested and shows every single attribute of interest - long answers, asks questions, flirts, shows interest, smiley faces, etc...

For instance I approached and talked to this one Indian girl who ended up asking ME for my number and showing every sign of interest.

However when it comes time to ask her out, they would always say they are busy and available the next week, in a very nice and sympathetic way of course.

I was wondering what you Indian girls are thinking? Are you:

A: Playing hard to get? or
B: Are not interested?

Problem with B is that they show sooooo much interest and are sooo nice and seem very very interested!! Literally show every single sign of interest in the textbook. But it's the fact that they ALL seem busy this week and can only do the next that's problematic, aka trying to put the guy off?

Any inside opinions from Indian women? Are you trying to determine how loyal the man will be? Why else would you be so nice and waste your energies on leading them on while not being interesed?

Any opinions much appreciated, and please don't hit me with the "race doesn't matter" because it does, every culture has their own system of dating and testing.

Thanks!

"It's a human relationship, not a machine that has a manual"

I'm reading these dating/relationship articles from these "experts", and the advice given is so meaningless. People need to understand that you need to be yourself, and that's all there is to it. There are no "rules", and while I agree that dating is somewhat of a game, relationships are not. If you just be yourself, contact her/him how you think you should, treat her the way you should, flirt and show that you're interest, you should have no trouble finding someone who's right for you and talk to you about it. If they care about you, they will kindly (note this) let you know if you're coming off as clingy or if you need to back off. Same thing goes for some people on this website. I've seen some really negative comments or opinions on here just because they went after a bad type of girl/guy and think every experience is like that. Anyone else agree?