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So I'm asking cause I know my mom and my sister are annoyed by this but I never noticed until they pointed it out and now that I see it it's starting to have me thinking differently and I can see why it's annoying them. So my brother's girlfriend is living with us she's a lilyounger than I am by a year or a couple months? Not really sure. I forgot. Well my brother is 27 and he works all the time and is overweight he's almost 400 lbs& has me doing everything for him but he's spoiled rotten. He gets his food made for him everyday and if he's not served he won't serve himself. He always wants me to do everything for him but his girlfriend never does anything for him cause she gets mad at him saying he should do it himself. So he is scared 2 ask her so he ask me all the time even though she's sitting right next to him. So what's annoying my family is that my brother has a bald spot on the back of his head and he always wants me to spray it and hide it with this powder stuff he got online every morning. He wakes me up. No lie it is kind of annoying cause I have trouble going to sleep at night and once I'm asleep I'm asleep& it's hard for me to go back to sleep and he wakes me up at like 9:30 in the morning. That's the same time his girlfriend is up cause they leave to work around the same time. So my mom is annoyed that he won't wake her up instead and wakes us up. She always threatens my brother and says that she won't do his hair for him & to not wake her up. My mom thinks my brother is scared of her that's why he doesn't wake her up. The other day I woke up & did his hair and as soon as he left she came out of the room. I was thinking "Why didn't she do it for him?"So I'm wondering guys would you break up with your girlfriend if she did this and didn't do anything for you like cook, clean, or help you hide your insecurities? Or do you think he should do all these things himself? My mom believes that you should spoil your man & take care of them. My brother's girlfriend is more self centered.

Marvin is 19 and his girlfriend Sophia is 18. Marvin never calls Sophia pretty, never talked about her appearance. He often stares at Sophia and blushes. Sometimes Marvin gets erections while he's around Sophia. Marvin hits and pushes Sophia whenever she touches him. He screams no and hits her in public. He refuses to be physical with her and stares at her at night while she's sleeping. Marvin did this for 15 minutes one time and really enjoyed it. At night when Marvin is sleeping Sophia cuddles him and kisses him. Marvin really likes it, and cuddles and hugs back but only in his sleep. They eventually kiss. Marvin liked it but he was still a little scared. He punched her when she tried hugging him in the morning. Marvin peed in Sophia's bed five times so she never lets him spend the night anymore. Marvin feels really scared at night and it makes him want to cry. he doesn't know why he feels so terrified being touched by people when Katie was never violent towards him at all. Sometimes he feels scared for no reason.

Joe is 18 and has a 16 year old girlfriend Katie. Joe always tells Katie she looks fat and disgusting. He shows Katie how beautiful other girls are and how she's ugly as dog poop. Katie used to have a eating disorder that nearly killed her, Joe said she looked better with the eating disorder and tells her. Her hair looks awful. Joe steals from her wallet and openly flirts with other women in front of her. Katie starts forcing herself to vomit again. Joe starts calling her less and spending more time with his dogs. He only pays for himself on dates with Katie.

So everyday I clean the house while my mom works or sleeps. My brother never cleans the house he works and the same goes for my brother's girlfriend. She doesn't really do anything anyways. They all just work. My mom makes me cook dinner everyday and do chores every single day. I don't mind cause I'm unemployed and plus I like cooking. It just annoys me when she orders me around and just me cause I never see her doing that to my younger sister.

Like right now my mom gave me a list of chores to do and I told her "Why is it always me? Why don't you tell someone else?" And she's like cause you don't work. My sister doesn't do much either. She just goes to a community college 2 days a week for 4 hours and all the other times she gets things handed to her. She gets cooked for and never cleans. In her free time she hangs out in her room all day on her phone or either goes out with her friend to go pokemon hunting or to the gym. I never once saw her cleaning or cooking & my mom has never once told her to clean. It's always me cleaning and cooking in the house. Plus my mom and my brother give her money sometimes and they baby her. I don't get money at all for my chores. I haven't been paid once at all. I'm the black sheep of the family. I don't care about cooking or cleaning cause I'm a naturally caring nurturing type of person. I just want to know if it's wrong that she doesn't help me or do anything at all or if that's a good excuse not to help around the house? Do you think I should be getting paid? Are they taking advantage of me? Do you think my sister should be helping? Is going to college 2 days a week really that stressful for 4 hours? Or do you think this is normal for me to do since I'm unemployed?