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I very much think they are true. My husband and I watched the "Leaving Neverland" documentary a week ago. We also watched Martin Bashir's documentary "Living with Michael Jackson" last night. In that documentary Michael Jackson openly said that he shows his love for little boys by sharing a bed with them. He claims it's not sexual. I could understand where he's coming from if he was from a culture where sharing a bed with someone you're not related too isn't necessarily sexual. However, he doesn't come from that culture. Quite the opposite actually. Even if he did think that he still should have stopped after the 1993 allegations to at least prevent people from getting the wrong idea, but he doesn't. Either he was incredibly stupid (which I don't think he was) or he simply didn't want to stop being sexual with little boys (which I think is much more likely). Moreover, the same little boy who he's holding hands with and claims he shared a bed with came out not long afterwards that Michael was abusing him. Michael's also had several other accusers regarding sexual abuse against him. I know Wade and James came out years latter, but it's actually very common for victims of abuse to come out long after it happened.

But what does everyone else think?

I am 30 and my boyfriend is 25. I am his first proper girlfriend. We met just for a coffee date which went well. It was my bday a few days later and he sent me some expensive flowers which I was surprised about because we only just met. He still lived at home but came to see me the day after and we just chatted outside. He was very nervous and shaky holding my hand.

now we have been dating four months and had our first weekend away together and I’m wondering if this is normal in what I’ve recognised in the past four months:-

1. he said he loved me very quickly, and that he knew straight away.
2. He started to want to be with me all the time. He turned up at my house twice unannounced just to bring me coffee because I was working late
3. he proclaims his love quite a lot but says that he feels lost without me and just sits up in his room, he said his parents have commented on this
4. if I do something he will go and do the same thing or with buy what I have bought a lot.
5. He spends a lot of money on me for Valentine’s etc almost excessive for the amount of time we’ve been dating
6. he doesn’t bother with his friends anymore and says he doesn’t need anyone but me because they are all unreliable
7. he doesn’t like silence and I sometimes get the impression he needs a drink for confidence
8. when we were on holiday this weekend he drove dangerously in some quiet areas that could have resulted in us crashing
9. He says he has plans for us but it’s like he’s already decided these in his head and doesn’t consult me
10. I have spoken about past dating experiences. He then says about his male friends that he works with wanting to go on lads holidays and how many girls they sleep with but that he doesn’t want to do this because he thinks it’s not nice
11. saw on Facebook that he has had social anxiety in the past