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My life used to be great, loving boyfriend of two years, healthy, happy, got accepted to my dream school. Then in June this all fell apart. I got sick out of nowhere and now I never ever feel hungry the feeling is completely gone and I feel nauseous most of the time. No doctor can figure it out and I’m afraid I’m stuck this way. My boyfriend dumped me because he said I had every medical test done and that I had “anxiety” when I literally feel like junk everyday. I used to be so independent and love life now I’ve acquired major anxiety and depression because of my health. If I were ever to jump back into the dating scene I have no idea how to go about it, nor know how to tell a guy about my physical issue with no diagnosis. So to all men out there, if a girl were to tell you these issues would you run? Think she’s weird? I seriously have lost all self-esteem and everyone always tells me how great I look and anyone would die to have me but I feel like I’m hiding some weird secret by never feeling hungry. But I just don’t feel comfortable with this new issue in my life. I have no idea what to do. Any tips? I’m just afriad if I open up to anyone about my health issues (but not really a health issue bc I’m technically completely healthy as every medical test is clear) they’ll run like my ex did. It’s all really really sad. Thanks guys.

When we are dependent we are too needy when we are independent we are too independent wtf we can’t win. www.instagram.com/.../

Suppose a woman has an unplanned pregnancy and can get an abortion, but chooses not to. The man asks her to abort- he even offers to pay- but she still says no. Once she has the child and can’t afford to raise it on her own, she asks the man for child support even though he doesn’t want to pay or can’t afford to. Should he be forced to pay because he’s partially responsible for the kid’s existence in the first place? Or should he not have to pay because he did what he could to prevent the current situation? The child shouldn’t have to suffer because the mother was irresponsible, but the neither should the father. I think the father should pay child support, but the mother should pay him back, plus interest, once the child is independent.