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What more to say, all my year 10 friends have abandoned me and left me, over one fight, and i hate them now anyway, i realize now that i don't want to be in one big nerd group, I am classified as a nerd but I also have some jock, and extreme shy girl behavior, i love drawing, parkour and singing, and a whole lot more hobbies that made those friends hate me

I feel comfortable talking to my year 7-8-9 friends, call me crazy, but because I'm immature, I get along with them more, they are more kind, sweet, and they love harry potter like I do, and don't mind talking about it often.. while my year 10 friends want to fit in so they won't talk about a fandom with me.

I also have friends in year 11-12.. this is because at 8 years old, I befriended online 15 year old friends and grew up with them, I also have a 18 year old brother and I tend to talk to them more then people my own age, maybe because they are older and know that its okay for me to be silly and immature

And people my own age think i'm weird to be silly and immature because they want to be popular...
maybe its not age but grade, someone explain is it okay., does it make me a loner, and maybe give me some theories on to why I do this (I just can't befriend any year 10) (maybe I like being more mature then year 8-7-9s and see how much I've grown) (and with year 11-12's I like seeing how much they have grown) .. i'm not sure please help

Friend A doesn't have many friends. I usually have all the friends. I introduced Friend A to friend B. They've hung out like 3-4 times with me but that's it. They barley have any connection besides me. I stopped being friends with Friend B because I didn't agree with her morals and she never initiated anything with me not ask how I'm doing. I was the only one intiating. I bought her custom made gifts and everything. I started to fade. I slowly stopped talking to her and she never reached out to me once in 4 months span. I admit I got angry and started talking about her to my friends and to Friend A. Friend A who barley knows her knows my situation and knows I don't hang out with her. Moving forward I introduce more of my friends to Friend A and I invite her AND drive her everywhere. I just found out Friend B is going over to Friend A's house. I don't know if this is being silly but I don't like how Friend B can talk to Friend A yet hasn't reached out to me. Also Friend A knows my situation and I'm feeling a bit of sneakiness from her. I have a gut feeling they're speaking ill mannered about me. Im not saying Friend A can't hangout with anyone but she knows what Friend B has done. Also Friend B reaches out to Friend A but I've been friends with her for many years. Im just having a very bad feeling with both of them. What should I do? My other friend told me to slowly cut off my friendship with Friend A because that's not right and to not worry about it and let karma run it's course. Im usually someone that tolerates a lot and gives a lot of chances. But once I get a vibe of no good from someone it's usually 98% right.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. I was very happy with him, and never looked at other guys while being in a relationship with him. We were even planning to get married in the near future, and we've practically each others only friends.
Now this weekend, a guy out of nowhere came up to me and started talking to me. I talk to many people and I didn't see anything wrong in talking to him. We spent a whole hour talking to each other (mostly he did the talk). The following day he saw me again but didn't talk to me. He had added me on social media and he probably saw the pictures with my boyfriend, so that's why. However, late in the evening he messaged me and we spent 3 hours talking over social media. Unknowingly, and unconsciously, I started liking him a bit as a person. Then the following day he saw me again and this time I was with my boyfriend. I thought he wouldn't talk to me, but later in the day he messaged me again and we talked for a little while. From day 1 he started flirting with me, and I might have flirted back without even knowing, but it's in my character to joke around without meaning anything. However the last time he talked to me things started to get more serious and I asked him if he knew that I have a boyfriend and he said yes, but he likes me. I had to admit that I like him too but I couldn't do this to my boyfriend, and the following day I cut all contact with him.
Then, silly me, decided to tell my boyfriend what was happening and he got frustrated. He told me that he has to think about it, and he hasn't talked to me back for 2 whole days.
I feel like it's my fault, that I might have ruined a lovely relationship with my boyfriend, but I really had no control over my feelings.
Does it count as cheating?
Did I do anything wrong?

P. S. this story happened all in 3 days.