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I’ve dated a girl when I was younger who said to never get too big. Sometimes I really have a hard time believing that there is such thing as being too big. Where am I even supposed to know where the line is at. I don’t even workout now anymore. Just work hard. It’s almost like it’s just meant to mess with me. But I do respect it. She said that after I sent a pic of mainly flexing my shoulders though. But initial question. Can arms ever be too big. Met a new girl who compliments my arms as well as my ex did. My first thought is “damn what if I get them to be bigger than?” “How much better could I be”. And I don’t mind it at all. I come from hardworking and athletic up bringing and everything else. Not much genetic I don’t think. Just embedded to take care of myself. I’m really not a gym rat. I actually hate gyms because there’s always a little weirdo critiquing your every move. Made my mind up to have a full home gym set up to ever be dedicated to working out again. But you never know. I know the whole science behind working out and everything. Like the tricep is really like a third of your arm. It’ll make your whole arm and biceps look bigger by training them. Just looking to continue to grow an evolve but needs to be directed in the right direction in this point of my life.