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I have a condition that causes me to lose hair diffusely at 19, meaning no bald spots but very thin all over the scalp, there is no treatment and I opted to shave my head bald, I'm taking Howie Mandell full on skin uptop. No shadow no hair whatsoever, I pull it off alright (surprising as I'm a skinny paler guy) my head shape and face work well it I will say, and I know it was just hair doesn't make or break me personally. But I worry that attractive young women in late teens or early 20's will be much less attracted to me. I didn't have much experience to begin with 19, and never had a serious girlfriend (grew up in a small town with very limited options) and I can be honest with myself and say I need to find my partner physically attractive. I have high standards but I'm not some player in the end I want to be happy with only one girl so I'm not ashamed of the standards, and I understand and respect a girl having the same ideals, so I want to know if having a shaved bald head is seen as attractive or an unattractive trait in young women's eyes, and give personal opinions on what you would do if a young bald guy showed interest in you at a party or on the street etc. Or your opinions on if you think it'll put me at a bad disadvantage compared to 'hairy' guys. Please be honest, I appreciate honesty even if it's not what I want to hear.

I'm an 18 year old guy who has some premature balding, it came on when I got medical exhaustion a while back and my body cut nutrients to non essential functions, (nails stopped growing etc) anyway normally the hair recovers but in my case it made it vulnerable to DHT the testosterone that causes baldness at an old age, now I'm not fully bald or receding really just thin all over so I opted to shave it, to the skin, so when I say I'm bald I mean Howie Mandell skin shaven head. People say it looks good on me. (Surprising as I'm a paler guy more on the slender side, but I've even had a friends girlfriend tell him 'I am worried because I don't think you'll pull it off as good as(insert my name here)-I couldn't even imagine him with hair.' When he asked if she would care if he shaved it. People say I look 21-22 who don't know me so it hasn't aged me, thanks to the baby face, and I really viewed it as something some girls wouldn't like but most wouldn't care about or even would like if I pursued them. However my confidence plummeted when I read on hairloss forums guys saying that being bald young is kryptonite to young women, you can forget about having an attractive young girlfriend, you'll have to severely lower standards if you want to date etc. And they used to pull all the girls and now nothing, I've never had a legit girlfriend and admit looks do matter I have decently high standards and girls do too, so will this make dating harder, and is it a dealbreaker for most young women? Please be honest and picture if one approached you at a party or on the street before you answer.

Which do you prefer

I'm a guy and I'm like white as a ghost... I look a lot like Sheamus from WWE. Not that I look exactly like him but my skin tone is very similar to his. I have blue eyes and dark brown hair The thing is I've never been on a date or had a girl like me and all the girls in school go on how much they admire tanned guys. And I asked my friend why and he said: "Maybe because you're so pale." This is making me lose hope in finding the perfect girl in my life. :(

Girls, would it bother you if a guy was as pale as I described? Or would you prefer a man who is tanned?

Ok, I feel like there is going to be a lot of hate about this one.
There seems to be an epidemic happening, to girls faces.

First it was make-up, then it was plastic surgery, then it was Botox, then collagen and now the eyebrows.

I have watched beautiful women turn into horror movies in just months and it honestly really saddens me.
They all seem to become twice as insecure after surgery and seemingly once they have all this surgery, they attract all the guys that... well cheat, beat and think about their meat.

Girls with pale skin and thick black eyebrows that are crooked or too close together or just seriously like 1 inch thick and jet black... Would girls like it if their man came home and took out his blue eyes, took off his brown hair, rubbed off his tan and showed his true Red haired, pale skin, hazel eyes. Or worse what if his face was injected to look like muscles or he had beard extensions.

I think it has a lot to do with why men may be mean to girls after they meet in bars etc, go home together and shag. Then she will wonder why he isn't answering her calls even though they had sex...
I have nearly had about 37 heart attacks, and it is not nice.
(one night stands) I have had to buy like 500 bath towels in the last 2 years because they all have black eyebrows and make up all over them.
Now before someone says Im shallow or an asshole, when I said one night stands, its the usual-
I see her, she sees me, we look at each other like we want to kill each other, we dance, we make out, we get a cab, we introduce ourselves, we shag, we sleep.
a lot of the time I have been mostly sober because I can handle my drink very well so no I didn't have beer goggles.

I think there is nothing seriously more un attractive about a girl then fakeness and makeup obsessions.
Don't get me wrong, some of those models look great. but not all girls are models and that is a really good thing lol.
so let me have it ladies and gentlemen.