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So she started teaching around the same time she married my cousin and I was one of her first students. That was elementary school for me. So I've known her a long time. But these last few years I've been old enough to go out drinking with them. Almost everytime we do she gets really touchy. It's never anything overtly sexual it's just a whole lot of subtle things: lingering hands when she's trying to get by me, leaning on me, randomly dancing on me, grabbing me and pulling me places, trying to get me to dance. It's stuff that under most circumstances I would just brush off but it's just so much of it. Each time it gets more and more. Like this last time she kept grinding her butt on my shoulder while I was sitting. Had it happened once or twice I would've never noticed but it's a ton of little stuff every single time we drink. I thought at first that she's just a touchy person cause she's really extroverted and she is but it feels like a whole lot more than normal and it's just me. I'm also a big introvert compared to the rest of my family. I do really well in social settings but I can also dip of in a corner and read and be just as happy. I also don't share a lot of my dating life with my family mostly because I don't date much. Like It's pretty easy finding girls who wanna date me I just usually prefer being single and I don't make a big deal about relationships and I think that may have something to do with this. My family for a while was really unsure about my sexuality. I'm not a super manly guy and I do really well with traditionally feminine stuff but at the same time I don't really give off the vibe that I'm gay... cause I'm not. A lot of people assume I'm asexual but I'm not I'm just not really public about sexual stuff. I'm just unsure of what's going on. What do you think?

So there's this girl I know that I got into contact with recently, we were talking back & forth for a bit planned to hangout - and we did, things happened and we end up being in the grey area between friendship and relationship.

She became very distant and cold while I was curious to explore what could be... It became too difficult because of a number of circumstances and we decided to just be friends (I was having health problems & she was going through changes with living situations and job stability... or at least that's what I thought) but I was still very interested in hanging out and going places because she is an interesting person I enjoy her company/perspective.

5 days after that conversation we had, she showed up at a hangout spot of mine (a store where I have a lot of friends that work there) with another guy on a day she said she was busy working - so essentially she blew me off for someone else. She came up to me and asked if I "come here often" which was flat-out insulting when I had talked about that place numerous times and she knew I went there a lot. She acted very awkward and was apprehensive to come up to talk to me and had this glazed over look in her eyes and had this vibe of shame & guilt as well spoke in odd tone.

Fast forward to now, I'm still pissed off about everything that happened and some of the things she said to me that I don't care to mention. Anyway I'm one of those people that look for the best in someone and I am willing to hear someone out (and she knows this about me) but yet she never bothered giving an explanation or even trying to contact me. We went from talking every other day to not speaking at all... I'm down to remain friends but the way she's behaving has me in "fuck this person" mode.

So should I let her know that she upset me and try to get an explanation?

Or is it a just giant waste of time considering the way she's behaving and I should let it go entirely?

What do you think?

Thanks.

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