Search Results: settling

For Skeptics: Understanding White Privilege in the U. S.

This began as an answer to a question, and quickly became too long. Plus I don't want to keep saying it. The question was basically 'is white privilege real'? My answer is mainly aimed at skeptics, though for people who...

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Master Age: 51

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Relationships

Why am I like this?

So I'm only 18 and in the past I have been with only older men. Like 25 and and even 30. In my job I get on better and want to talk to the older people rather than people my age. I don't like going to clubs really. When I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why is it ok for men to have lots of sex before settling down and getting married but it’s not ok for women to do so?

So i’ve wondered this a lot. Why do men think it’s ok for them to have all the sex they want during college and in their twenties before finding a “wife material” girl and settling down with her, but then they want their...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

The perfect girl?

Is it bad that settle for anything less than sparks at the touch of the lips and an attractive girl? Like I understand I ain't the hottest guy but my track record is pretty good, very few gfs but my history has volleyball...

CreativeUsername15

Xper 5 Age: 27

Relationships

Do you believe there's a "reacher" and a "settler" in every relationship?

There a theory that every relationship has a reacher and a settler. The theory is that one partner is reaching out of his/her league and the other is settling for someone below their league. Do you think this it's true?

Steve37

Yoda Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Dreams, Nightmares, Insecurities, Girls, and My Stupid Love Life

This is the first time I'm confessing these things to anybody, and the first time writing one of these. technically I'm confessing to nobody. Due to anonymity I can still discuss with others of what I've shared. Sorry if...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Relationships

Girls, Does abundance of body hair matters in a relationship?

Girls , how much does abundance of body hair matters you while choosing a guy and settling for a stable relationship with him as long as you like him as a person and he respects and cares about you as well!

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Relationships

Never Settle For Less Than You Deserve

Alright so here's the deal, I've seen so many people on here, and dealt with friends in real life who settle because they are scared to be alone. IT'S A TRAP! Society wants us to believe that being married and having kids...

Heynashville

Xper 5 Age: 33

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Dating

Where are the good girls hiding?

I've had a long string of bad relationship went from a really good looking girl with a trouble with settling down. To a girl who is obsessed with sex, booze, and smoking. So where are the good girl hiding? Do I attached...

Zmack

Xper 4 Age: 28

Relationships

When do you feel like you could be ready? I’ve always felt ready?

I’m 18 and I understand that I’m still young but I’m so afraid of being alone. I want to get married some day. All my friends have had their boyfriends for to years or more. I’m the only one who isn’t with someone. I go...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Thinking of writing a long message for my ex of 12 years before I get married to my now fiance, good idea or not :( ?

My ex and I fell in love since we were in 6th grade, but through the years we were off and on because he was very irresponsible in studies and life, but always loved each other, until about 3 years ago when we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I let him go?

We met around October & we had a casual dinner because at the time I wasn't looking for a boyfriend but he was looking for a relationship but I guess he ended up settling so by the end of the night we ended up hooking up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I let go of him or stick around?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Close my open relationship or break up?

I asked my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years to open our relationship 6 mths ago. He was opposed to it but after I assured him that my feelings for him wouldn’t change and we set some ground rules and he said he’d be ok with it....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do you know when you should break up with your significant other?

We've been dating for about 2.5 months. I've met his family, I've met his closest friends, we've told eachother "I love you", and I practically live with him. I feel like I can talk to him and be myself. I enjoy his...

Horizons14

Xper 5 Age: 30

Dating

Does A woman’s physical appearance doesn’t really mafter?

I feel like appearances don’t matter as much as I think they do. I’m starting to feel like looks don’t matter anymore. I’m seeing all these non attractive women getting married and I don’t get how so many men are able to...

Jschwartz381

Xper 4 Age: 45

Relationships

Are we moving too fast?

My boyfriend and I have known each other for a year next month, casually dated for 8 of those months and been official for 3. We’ve already talked about marriage, kids, where we’d like to live, career goals. We both see...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What Happens To Your Friendship When Your Friends Get Divorced?

When people think of divorce, they often think about it affecting the couple or the couples families and children if they have them, but divorce can also have a strong impact on ones friendship circle, especially if the...

BeeNee

Influencer Age: 43

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Dating

How would this man find a woman to marry?

Mike is an average man. He grew up focusing on his grades and dreaming about what he wants to be when he grows up. The girls made fun of him and consistently rejected him throughout school because he wasn't cool. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How would this man find a woman to marry?

Anonymous

(25-29)