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At Christmas a friend of mine said that she no longer wanted to be friends as although I was a lovely guy I was very self pitying and had a victim mentality (largely due to being bullied through childhood). This really shocked me, she was one of my only friends irl and as a result I tried to change things and got some professional counselling too. I feel very much better in myself now and more positive. I posted this and tagged her in it on tumblr. How does it sound? Should I expect a reply?

"That feeling when you are overcoming your demons and are getting out of a negative mindset that has seemingly been a part of you for years.

The absolute icing on the cake for me now I am feeling more positive would be a second chance at properly getting to know a person who was nothing but a positive influence on me; in fact somebody I looked up to and thought of as a kinda role model.

In spite of the fact that I tested your patience to the absolute limit and often made you angry/upset you were always there for me and I am grateful for that. I hope that you might give me one last chance to show you I have changed and become a better person and to make up for my poor behaviour in the past. I really think you are a great person and believe I was lucky to have you in my life for the short time I did. I don’t know what else to say really Its hard to convey how sorry I was to lose your ‘friendship’ as I perceived it and how much of a hole you left in my life. I still haven’t found anyone with half your open mindedness on all sorts of issues and to be honest I don’t think I ever will. I feel more comfortable with myself now and I hope that will translate to you and others too.

I can't say any more than I have already but it comes down to this really. You supported me through the bad times in my life maybe unknowingly sometimes just by being there so its only fair that I invite you to share in the good…."

1. There was this super flirty girl who showed interest in me and was acting like a doormat to her...
2. she started flirting with other dudes of the class and blew me off for other dudes...
3. I moved on and walked away... and then she realised that im the best guy in the class and so she started giving me signs but i ignored her.
4. She stopped coming to the class as well , its been 3 months.
5. She is uploading songs and poems on instagram that basically has my name and she is indirectly 6. telling me that she loves me, but she hasn't contacted me directly.
7. She never said all those lovey dovey things earlier...
8. I just wana know.. should i give a second chance to her?

I met this girl, we got on amazingly well, had so much fun on our first date, had so much in common and talked for hours. I walked her home and halfway there she kissed me, I then kissed her when I dropped her off and said I had a great time and would like to do it again. I messaged her and we arranged to meet up for a second date, however the day before she asked if we could postpone, I the suggested another day, and said that if she doesn't want to meet, we didn't have to and to just tell me. However, she said she really did, and that she likes me, something I said back, but that her ex, had expressed a desire to get back together, however she said he was an asshole and she always makes mistakes when it comes to him. She the said she didn't know what to do, but didn't think it would end up happening. I felt like I can't just tell her to be with me because then I sound like a dick, so I said to do what's best for her and not mine or his feelings. She then decided to give him another chance to see if he can prove he's changed. Should I have told her that I really like her and would love to see how things went with us or did I do the right thing? We are now just friends, although her boyfriend is really jealous, and so it's becoming a lot harder to stay friends. I still like her and my friends think she still has feelings for me too.