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I am a freshman in college, and I currently have 2 guys vying for my attention. The problem is, both of them know each other, and I've reached a point where if I spend any more time with either one of them, it's headed straight for a relationship. Both of them like me a lot, but one of them has made it clear that he won't wait forever- and that's pretty bad news for someone who needs a whole lot of time to make up her mind.
So, I've come here to ask for your advice. Here are some pros and cons:

Guy #1:
PROS
-Shares a LOT of the same interests as me
-Incredibly sweet
-Very sexually compatible

CONS
-Lives off campus so I don't see him very often
-Don't know much about his life/hasn't introduced me to any of his friends
-Feels like I'm not an important part of his life (mostly because of the previous two things)

Guy #2
PROS
-Has mutual friends
-Extreme gentleman
-Always around/asking to be around (he has the advantage of living in the same hall as me)
-Makes me feel like an important part of his life (also because of the previous two points)

CONS
-Doesn't have much in common in terms of interests
-Not as sexually compatible
-Still talks about his ex
-Aims only to please (don't get me wrong, this can be nice... But I also like a guy who can tell me what he wants rather than only asking me the same.)

My biggest problem is that although I feel like Guy #1 should be the obvious choice, (he does seem to be more compatible overall,) the fact that I can and do spend so much time around 2 makes him much easier to fall for. With 2 I already feel like I'm part of a team; I just don't know if I would feel the same with 1 if I gave him more time. Unfortunately, however, time is running out.

My ex and I have been together 4 years. I knew that he's been taking all different kinds of stuff, but I didn't really care or pay attention to it because I was that into him. I decided to break it off between us when I found out that I was pregnant because I don't want my child around that nor do I want someone like that around my baby. He didn't really care that he wouldn't be able to help me raise our son and we haven't spoken ever since I broke up with him. I gave birth last month and about 2 weeks ago. I posted a picture of my baby on my Facebook and received a message on my with my ex asking about my son. (How he's doing, how much he weighed..) Then he asked if he could come and see him. Which has me stuck. He CLAIMS that he doesn't do drugs anymore and that he's better which I highly doubt. I don't want to be rude and outright say no but I just refuse to have my son around that.

We have been dating for three years and everything was okay in the beginning but then I noticed him getting fairly controlling and it would get to the point where I need to ask him permission to do everyday standard things. He didn't like when I spoke to friends, he would give out that other people are getting my attention and make me feel very bad about it. I don't even think I love him anymore but he says he will change.. should I stick around and see if he can change? After three years of troubles? Or should I leave him?

Me and my boyfriend was talking last night over the phone about how he hates his job (of 8 years) and wants to try to apply for policing next year
He has told me this goal of being a police before we even started dating
So anyway this is our conversation:
Him - im definitely going to apply for police next year
Me - oh okay nice
Him - yeah. I know i have to do a course first and then have to go to the academy school which is 2 hour drive from where we are
Me - how long does the academy go for?
Him - i dont know.. maybe 4 or 5 months.. gotta check
Me - so i can't see you for 4 or 5 months?
Him - i think we can take weekends off so i can come drive down to see you and all on the weekends.. but does it matter if we dont see each other for 5 months?
Me - ofcourse it matters! Its hard not seeing your partner for 5 months!
Him - but we can communicate everyday?
Me - but you're gonna be staying there.. there's other girls around you
Him - babe.. im going to be focusing on this. Not other girls. Im serious about being a police. And im serious about you.. look im going to tell you.. just dont get your hopes up though.. but if i make it and become a police, thats it.. Im going to ask your parents for your hand in marriage. I would marry you. And anyway if your parents know im a cop now, they will feel more secure.
Me - wait.. wtf?
Him - yes im serious. If i get into cop, my life is complete. I will be settled. I will be ready to get married. So please stick with me. Dont leave me.
So guys, should i be worried about all of this?
Do you think its possible he could be lying about marrying part?
Im just scared that if i can't see him for 5 months and there's girls in the academy, then he's gonna lose interest in me... or we both gonna lose interest
I dont wanna stop him from his dreams and goals though..
He has told me that as soon as he's settled, he would be thinking of marriage and kids later
We been together for over 1 year
But i dont know what to do or think about it all😔😔
by the way im 22, he's 27