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Am I just paranoid after his and I's past and problems or could it be that there's someone else?

I think I am being paranoid after finding out what he done to me seven months ago during our relationship. From cheating on me for two days to hurting my feelings by lying about something that I didn't do that ruined my reputation to many people that knows me. It's hard to forget and forgive someone like that who you thought loves you but still will hurt you. I love him so I forgave him but another lie then I'm seriously done. I'm don't giving him so many chances. He's literally touching that red flag already.

He was the one that called me in the first place after his rehearsal and I thought he should rest first. It's nice of him to call but I always tell him to rest first after rehearsal at least one hour. I really don't mind and I told him I'm not asking him to call me after every classes and rehearsals he had. But when some other girl/friend text him... he suddenly focuses on that person. Before he went to his college, he use to embrace me and give me his attention more often. But since he went to his college that he attends, he's usually on his phone texting other girls and friends. So, I get upset because what's the point of me visiting him 33 miles away to talk to him and hangout. Like, I'm here for a d*mn good reason and he's on his phone. Like, where is your respect and manners. It makes me upset how he have hearts on other girls' contacts and I don't that made me had the thought he was cheating last year but he angrily said "No!" But why would he get angry. I was just asking politely. Which made me more upset is that one of girl best friends was sending hearts to him and he was sending hearts back. :/ He's says that she's just his best friend but... not all best friends are like that... especially...

Me and my friend have just been having some issues with guys. When she had a boyfriend, all was good and well. Recently I got into my own relationship, and my friend well, she kinda hates my boyfriend. Her boyfriend isn't the biggest fan of mine either. See it's kinda like me and my boyfriend are the little misfits who happened to find each other. Like neither of us have ever had very good home lives, and so to cope sometimes we drink a little, and a lot of times we smoke pot. So they both see him as a bad influence. Which I guess is fair enough, but also I'd be drinking anyway. I just wouldn't smoke because he won't tell me where he gets his from.
What makes me mad though is that my "friend" is one of those people who have never really had a bad life. She's grown up in a nice house with both her parents, her dad has his own business, and she's going to a university for a useless degree and taking useless extra classes. Her boyfriend is a marine, also in college. Neither me or my boyfriend are in college. My friend is constantly calling my boyfriend stupid, and other just mean things. But it's like, I do the same stuff he does. So I guess I am too. That said, MINE, treats me well, and I can actually talk to him about deep personal stuff without feeling weird about it. Meanwhile my friend doesn't feel open to tell her boyfriend anything. And I can't really talk to her about anything either without feeling judged, or she acts like she doesn't care and doesn't wanna listen. Then her own boyfriend is over there getting naked pictures from other girls, yet mine is still the bad one.

So I haven't spoken to my friend in a few days. Would you guys and girls ever choose your so over your friends?