Search Results: why did he ask me to stay at his place

So last night was New Years, originally we thought we wouldn't be able to spend it together (my job loves to work me closing on holidays) a couple days ago I finally figured out a way we could spend it together although not very long just a couple hours, way better than nothing in my opinion. We talked and he agreed that we would do that. Then halfway through my all day shift New Years eve I get a message from him that he's not going to be coming over (what we'd decided) I ask why a few hours later I get a reply that it's because he doesn't feel safe driving back after midnight (drunks on the road logical reason) I mention I'd been planning to see if he could stay over anyway and check with my mom (I live at home) she says it's ok and he can stay, I relay this information, fast forward to 10:30pm I've worked my butt off so I can get off early so we have a little more time together, no response from him, fast forward a bit more I've gotten home and started getting settled in, FINALLY a response, he's decided he still doesn't want to come over... why? he doesn't want to sleep in a room that isn't his... Any other Non-Holiday day I generally wouldn't care much, yes I'd be a bit upset but I'd get over it... but on New Years Eve? Tonight after getting little to no messages from him all day (he recently upgraded his computer and it's been a pain in the ass getting him to text me back since, also part of why I'm upset) I finally explained a second time (I told him I was upset and why on New Years Eve as well, no yelling or name calling or any of that just I'm upset this is why) I sent him a message since it appeared he wasn't going to figure it out on his own (I told him my next free evening and when I would be taking breaks so he could more easily take initiative to text me on my break/ plan a nice night for us in place of New Years) in the message I included my request that I would like from him before I stop being ticked, personally I think I'm not asking for much but I'll let you guys decide, I requested 1. an apology for him cancelling on me last minute for New Years, and/or 2. a random appearance by him with flowers, and/or 3. a nice date night, and/or 4. him texting me on my breaks... He as of yet has done nothing but accuse me of overreacting. Opinions?