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When we are out in public, we hold hands and give hugs here and there. He initiates all the time.
So today there was these bunch of women sitting down at the park and they were all staring at us when we were coming towards their direction to our car. Then he would tell me "lets go , hurry. theyre looking at us."
and i asked him "who cares? why do u care?"
and then he goes "i dont like anyone looking"
And this is the same with his room mates.
I come over to his place over the weekend and he would be like "i hope my room mates are not in the kitchen or living room."
and ill ask him "why?"
and he just goes "coz i dont like them looking at me"
Like wht the? Im not sure if he's ashamed of me or what?
Like he holds my hands and hugs me in public but then he says this... its so confusing..
Why does he say this?

Hi, So The times that I have gone to my boyfriend (37/M) City apartment which are not many times, because he actually has 2 student apartments one here where I live, because he happens to go to the university here in my town, and he has another apartment in the city which is his official apartment (The one that I am talking about now), the point is, I have seen around 3 or 4 woman stuff laying around, on the bathroom, I saw a black eyeliner, closed kotex pads, thrown in a corner of the bathroom, there was also like two shopping bags from womens clothing stores thrown in the floor of his bedroom with a bunch of other bags and random stuff, they had stuff inside for sure!, but I don’t know what it was cause I did not check, he was to close by, I asked him and he told me that his ex girlfriend used to live there with him for some time and then they had broken up and she left to united states.

I suppose they broke up in 2013 or before but I really have no clue, we have been together almost 3 years, in the beginning of 2014 we started going out,, I have been seeing these items since the first time I went to his apartment. but at the end of 2014(July-august) and beginning of 2015(February) I saw the 2 bags from womans stores, he has such a mess in that apartment that honestly I dont even know if those bags where there before and perhaps I did not see them.

I don’t know if His excuse is believable or not, all of this looks and sounds sketchy to me, And know that I think about it well enough in my quiet room, I did not see neither of those bags before (Like when I first went over to his apt, at the beginning of our relationship) I saw the bakers bag around july-august 2014 and then in feb 2015 I saw the clothing store one (it was full) UNLESS they where there but I had not seen them or he kept them somewhere else, his apartment is small, its a student apartment, so there's not much space to be hiding things.