Me and a group of friends watched a video where a man punched a woman and made her bleed and cry. Some guys were really heated and appalled at the video, but some of my other guy friends justified it because she was acting tough, running at the mouth, talking shit, and getting more close than the guy felt safe with Im sure. So the topic of discussion became "why didn't she just stay in a womans place?" Most of my girl friends were offended by that wording. You know, girls want to do everything a man can do without being told to "stay in our place" and rightfully so.
But I dont look at "staying in my place" as a bad thing, not really anyway. Guys think girls should leave the fighting to men and I couldnt agree more. Im a fucking princess, there's no way Im going to scuffle and box with a brickhead, shit-for-brains guy who would hit a person who is weaker than him. There are too many guys who care about me who will gladly kick his ass for me! Being told to "stay in our place" makes girls sound weak and incapable. But I know what I am. I know Im not weak and incapable. If a man hit me, I can handle the pain. But why would I even put myself in that position? If I were in the video girls' shoes, I never would have got in the guys face. I would find a guy or police officer who would tackle that piece of shit to the pavemet. Thats why I feel like a womans place is exactly where I belong. And I think more girls need to realize that arguing and fighting with men is stupid. We are tough, but most girls can't beat up guys. And most of us dont welcome getting beat up. So whats the use in fighting and arguing like were men? Just to prove a point and empower ourselves? Its more empowering to be able to walk away from an altercation unscathed and unbothered. Plus, I always carry a blade if it gets that dangerous. I dont see walking away from a fight I can't win as me being weak, because I always win in the end. Women need to realize this.