Why women throw themselves at some guys but most guys struggle?

[Anonymous]

What makes those guys so attractive

[serious]

Well, if the man is both attractive, handsome on the outside but at the same time on the personality aspect is also highly disciplined, principled and is a moral person with no bad habits whatsoever then of course any woman would want to throw herself at such a man to see if there is any chance or not.

However, I think most women will give more importance to the personality of the man, hence if the personality of the man is much more attractive and appealing then also women can throw themselves at such men.

It would also depend on how the women see it as well.

[Truthatanycost]

I think one of the main reasons why so many men do not have women throwing themselves at them, is because they are too thirsty. When you are not thirsty, the behavior of women is very different because they can totally relax, do not worry about being taken the wrong way, and in my experience are much more sexual. It's a paradox.

I have to laugh because I'll be talking to a girl about something mundane, and out of nowhere she'll start talking about sex.

[Asker]

Funny cuz when I'm talking about mundane things with her it goes nowhere

[Truthatanycost]

The mundane stuff, in between other more interesting stuff could be the difference, as well as the energy behind it I guess.

[mattdzz]

It's not so much physical appearance; although, it is part that. But what I've found in observing girls behavior in high school and in college, is that a guy who has a certain status (e. g. popularity, QB on the football team) that makes other girls want him, will make nearly all girls want him even more. Girls want what other girls want, as a big part of a young woman (18-24) having a boyfriend is showing said boyfriend off.

[Asker]

Yeah maybe that's why

[Asker]

Well it's a bit too late for me to join a football team