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So about 7 weeks ago my ex broke up with me and I'm finding out a few reasons why. Now I plan to talk to her I just want to get an idea of if I screwed myself or not.

Now I have personally been going through a lot and I guess you can say I leaned in my ex. I just needed emotional support. My dad is sick with a debilitating disease and hasn't been doing good since February, my grandpa was diagnosed with cancer, my parents are having financial problems, I'm having kidney/bladder problems etc..

Now I asked for her to be there and might have came across as needy and weak and I think she lost attraction. I just didn't want to lose her and that was my biggest fear. She also might have felt I was holding her back because I was "needy". But I was never like this and really just needed support. Everything I did before we broke up was all unintentional (btw we dated almost 2 years)

Now that were back at school she approached me and wanted to talk. The only bad thing I ever did intentionally to hurt her was last week bring a girl home from a bar infribt of her. I know I was an asshole.

Is this unfixable?
How do I get her back?
Do you think she will come back?

I'm a 22 year old Filipino dude born and raised in Miami. It's been hard throughout my life to even get a date although I'm making very slow progress. I've only been on 4 dates. It's a very materialistic city full of gorgeous Hispanic women that are a little out of my league and I tend to go for those girls lol. I prefer Hispanic women but I get nervous on what they might think about an interracial relationship even though I can pass as Hispanic looking. Women have many options here as well and tend to choose someone else over me. I'm decent looking and workout a lot. I've had some success but most of the time I fail and have to start again. Recently, I've showed clear interest in a couple girls and they all went on to choose a different man and it was very discouraging. It's mentally and sexually frustrating. My friends are all white. I like country, classic rock, football, basketball, drinking, smoking, and dive bars instead of clubs. I'm working with a min wage salary while I'm going to nursing school and honestly I DO want a relationship because I've never really been in a serious one. How should I change my approach? Any advice would be cool.

I've never had a date in my life, kissed a girl or had sex before... all because I have approach anxiety. I am graduating college in a few days, so I am trying to get out to the bar/club scene for the rest of the week to try to talk to women.

Ladies, what do you feel when a guy approaches you? What if he dressed well, is courteous and just a nice guy.

For example, what if a guy said this: "Hey there, how are you doing tonight?"

Would that bother you at all? What if you were sitting down with your group of friends and a guy tried to approach you?

I want some opinions and explanations as to why not or why this would bother you.