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for quite a while now I been hearing that hyped that as we people we should always date those who we share a lot of things in common with. but nevertheless I see a lot of people who are basically cats and dogs in personalities yet they still get along and love each other. a perfect example of this was show I once saw similar to Judge Judy where a totally preppy girl when to file a lawsuit on her boyfriend who happened to be a hyped up gothic dude who was obsess with tattoos and piercings. I've actually seen this happen a lot and i'm kinda a good example, I am a Hispanic dude who grew up the middle of the ghetto though deep inside I'm actually a gamer/comic geek yet I tend to click a lot with scene people. yet other Hispanics folks who share the same personality traits as me find me repulsing and I find them repulsing as well. I think I rather be a scene girl any day and on the contrary dating a girl who shares the same personality trait as me would be a living nightmare.

but anyways I guess this is who I am. I don't care if the person I date or am committed to shares the same personality traits as me just as long as we love each other and respect/accept ourselves for who we are. yet I seen a lot of people who actually believe the opposite. so which one are you?

Iam not perfect in any way, iam my own person iam smart, funny, logical and dendepenable, 6'1 very loyal and very good looking (according to all the females i know) and i make an effort to stay a healthy weight and stay as fit as i can.

The first girls i dated were 7/10 with good qualities but it didn't work out, i improved physically a lot to the point i can easily walk into a room and spark instant interest in the hottest girl there (done more than once) I attract all kinds of girls but i find that iam most attracted to attractive girls, i dont wanna sound shallow but every girl that i considered dating in the past couple of years was 8/10+ and few were 7.5/10 ... its not one sided before you ask as these girls have shown strong interest in me as well (however either distance, wrong timing or they had a boyfriend ruined it ) .

So iam single and i find a lot of average to slightly above average girls attracted to me quite a lot, i've been asked by 2-3 girls to be their boyfriend but i jokingly declined (Not very attractive) iam nice and i dont like hurting girls, but i just can't see myself dating a girl who i dont find pretty the first time i meet her, if i dont look at her and say " she's beautiful i want her to be mine " i dont think i can date her...

Iam sorry if i sound shallow but it is what is it is, am i right or wrong?