A few weeks ago I got fed up with her and he keeping her a secret. It was either me or her. He choose me and cut all ties with her which infuriated her. She even sended an angry text to him, which he showed me, where she was angry for unfriending her on Facebook.
Last week I got an anonymous letter with screenshots of texts between them and even texts to and from an other girl (which were very 18+). I literally got sick by reading them.
All these texts look like the screenshots were made from his point of view (on his phone). There was also a screenshot of texts between my boyfriend and me included, which I can confirm.
This all seems too real to be fake, but at the same time there is a rejected ex in play. As they say "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".
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These days you never know. But if you feel it in your gut, it's best to not just let this sit by and investigate its legitimacy. You may need to find somebody who is willing to do this legally. But if you have to go that far and you don't trust him anymore, leave don't stay. A relationship cannot last without trust. Always remember that. You can't control what he does, but you have to seriously think about what your actions are going to mean for this relationship. Because you can only speak for yourself, and he can only speak for himself. I read in one of your other comments that he was next to you and he told you to throw it away. That is a major red flag here. There is no way of telling if he is or isn't. Anybody these days can be a hacker or something along those lines. You never know. But if you cannot trust him or his words, you don't have to stay in this relationship.
Thats why I have serious doubts. I already gave him an ultimatum to choose me or her. If he chose her I would have break up then.
The fact that he didn't want me to read them means that either knows what is in them or has a clue what is written in them.
If I ask him why he said that he's just going to say that it's fake and that he didn't want te see me hurt by fake texts.
I feel in my gut that there is something going on that isn't right. If he had nothing to hide he would have shown me.
The fact is you shouldn't have to make him chose. If you already have to come towards that conclusion then the wise decision is to just end it and never return. Don't be with a cheater. Something is going on, and that he did things he shouldn't have. He should have been flat out honest with you and he wasn't. Even if he didn't nothing sexual, the fact is he was with somebody you would never approve of. And that is more than enough proof for you. At least it should be. Trust your gut.