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I know I'm only 21, and this won't last too long before I dip back in the water... But seriously, the past 7 months I've really given this dating thing a go and it's all just been a shit show.
I have guys asking me out very frequently and I just decided hey, let's actually stop being an introverted loner and maybe you'll meet someone! Ha ha haaa..

seriously... I have never been such an emotional wreck in my life Hahahah. My god. I never thought dating would be this difficult, or how full of lies other people can be just to get what they want. Man! It's been a long go. I'm SO sick of it! I'm sick of not trusting any dude, how they "aren't ready for a relationship," ... Pushing me to behave in ways I normally never thought I would (stalking them at midnight, setting up fake online accounts to catch them). I swear I'm not psycho! But I hate hate hate being ignorant and being the dumb one. I won't have a guy pull me around like that. My god, and don't get me started on these "mind games." They work! They do work, but I hate being such a fake person to another.

all in all, I've ended up empty handed. I've learned great lessons about players and manipulations, but I am farther away from love and trust than I've ever been. My heart was really broken by one guy, who I spent way more time being dragged around than I should have allowed. I lost myself... I literally didn't sleep and i lost my dignity. Now, I just want to chill OUT and not see any guy or do anything except MY own thing.

normal experience? Anyone else?

Meh... I HATE the dating world. I honestly do. In my 21 years, I have never been SO exhausted. If I may admit without coming off overly confident, I have guys after me frequently Bc I have good physical attributes. I get asked out all the time. I am VERY selective. I don't sleep around. But I'm ready to call the quits.

i met this guy a month ago. I have a busy schedule until June with school, so we had only been seeing each other weekends when I was available. This guy is good looking... Not like typical woah, but he is cute and totally my type.

So we have been spending time together on weekends. We have slept together recently. Literally slept all night naked together and had sex after.

However, he still has tinder and is talking to girls on tinder. I don't know how many but I know at least one girl of just recently, this morning actually. We had sex 2 days ago. He hasn't asked for her number or anything yet, but he started the convo. I only know because I happen to know the girl he matched with and she told me.

Soooo do I abort this? He really isn't a player, we have talked about this and he says he is a relationship guy but it takes him time and he has trust issues due to being cheated on by his long time girlfriend. He said he isn't ready to hop into a relationship now, and he is open to meeting others.

I just want to give up bc I feel like if he liked me he would want to be exclusive, even if it's been a month and we've seen each other 4/5 times for hours and hours each. And... Slept together...
His behavior hasn't changed since we slept together either.