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I don’t why I can’t live him even if he clearly treats me bad. He admit he is a player and jokingly say to me, you are a victim.

He ask me to pay for foods, signed up for loans, pay for tickets, medical, gasoline, cigarettes/loads. He never gave me a thing or even just a flower. He got mad if I cannot help him financially and start calling me irresponsible! Or cheap! Fucking idiot.

He fucked other people in our rented house while I am at work, just strangers he even just met online dating sites. He rejected me sex a lot of times and making me crave for it. He was mad when I sell his old things that he no longer use, he told me sell your body, not my things!

I once met his ex girlfriend and she told me you are so pathetic to be having a relationship with him. She told me he is gonna treat you bad if you are already useless. He also cheated to her and even beaten her up

until, such time I found my ex cheating on me and having another girlfriend. And he said I admit I fool you. And said, I never love anyone. If he never love anyone, how come he had so many gf’s like more than 20 in the past?

I let my ex boyfriend borrow 20K for his rent, 5K for his medial check up, restaurant bills which I forgot to count many times, shipping tickets that cost 4K, hotels and etc. which I believe would cost more or less 50K in total

my ex boyfriend has asked me to loan before for a motorbike. I don’t want to but he forced me promising he’s gonna pay monthly. but my family knew about it so they stolen the motorbike and sell it for 42K. Now I am keeping the money.

I dropped everything for my boyfriend to stay with him which I believe I spent more a lot. I sacrificed a lot of things but He only cheated me with another woman. Who he boast to me who has more money and can meet his needs. And now, my best friend is gone, my stable work is gone, my health sucks of std, my body becomes thin.

what shall I do should I return the money or not?

When I first met him, he was very charming and aggressive with sex. During our relationship, I still saw him chatting other girls but I trusted him when he said they are just friends.

When we stayed together, he is so demanding like I have to pay half for the rent and electricity if not he will get mad at me insulting me with “Irresponsible.” He was also asking me to have a bank loan for him to make business but I was afraid and said no and so He insulted me again with “Useless.” Until, he talk to other girls and I begin to question him again, he said he is looking for an investor in order to make business. He is so desperate to have a business. He once said I found 3 girls and I will use them to loan To make business.

He is a big smoker and sometimes doesn’t care if I am around. He drink alcohol a lot and even cheated behind my back when I am in office he sleeps with other girls at home.

He doesn’t really care about me. He get offended if I don’t grocery or buy him food. But he never ask if I eat after work or if he wants me to get from office. Sometimes he did but only to give money for his fuel and even buy some cigarettes.

Until I become empty like I have nothing to offer to him. He left me for another girl and said I can’t take care of his needs.
how come he did this to me like he is a heartless human?