Search Results: first things guys notice in a girl

Why would a girl unlike a profile picture?

Simply put, me and this girl got talking a few months back online. She did most of the messaging early on and since I told her I wouldn't be free for a date for a month it made communication a bit of a stretch at times...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why Men Tend To Bounce Back Better After Being Dumped Than Women

To specify a bit more, this is a take that addresses why men deal better with break ups THEY DIDN'T WANT. It does not address which gender tends to do better after dumping someone but I'd guess men do better with that too...

pavlove

Editor Age: 34

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Guy's Behavior

Do most guys judge girls by their looks?

People around tell me they don't, but isn't your appearance the first thing everyone notices? Thank you!

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Whats the first couple of things a girl notices when looking at a guy?

JasonRikk

Xper 4 Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested? If so, how should I initiate?

As you can tell by my age, I am currently in the high school, and my life has been a wreck. I rarely noticed this guy until later on a few weeks after the first week of school, he seems to notice me a lot. I thought he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Do American guys like British girls?

I'm planning a trip to the states next year and I just wondered how American guys would take to me haha. Judging from TV shows films American girls act very different like over dramatic and loud whereas I think British...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Girls, How Often Do You Lie To Guys?

I'm talking small lies, things you say to make yourself look good or desired. I tend to notice when people lie, small discrepancies in people's stories. It's just my personality. I've noticed girls lie the most when...

CaptainClueless

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

What does he want from me?

This guy is extremely confusing. At first i thought he wanted to be friends, but then he started to be a little flirty with me and stared at me a lot (and my legs) and he wouldn’t even really look away immediately when i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

He said his ex was hotter... Even though he knows I have major depression and self-esteem problems?

We're both young and he's my first boyfriend. He's had a few other girlfriends before, but he says I'm the first one that he actually wants a future with, so we're pretty serious. We were playing truth or dare by text...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Is my boyfriend unhappy in the relationship? Does he not want to be with me anymore?

Anonymous

(30-35)

First up, me and my boyfriend been together for nearly 1 and a half years We usually see each other once or twice a week and calls me everyday But recently we have been seeing each

First up, me and my boyfriend been together for nearly 1 and a half years
We usually see each other once or twice a week and calls me everyday
But recently we have been seeing each other nearly everyday
he's mostly the one initiating the calls everyday and asking me to go out nearly everyday this week and he's still very affectionate - still hugs and kiss me whenever we are together and he would put his arm around me or hold my hand in public
But when he called me last night, we had this conversation that made think he's unhappy being with me:
Him - im gonna be honest.. you're quite controlling. Even my mum noticed.
Me - how?
Him - you are kinda controlling. Like today i told u that i wanna get tipsy at work and u keep asking why and saying "no dont do that".. i can do whatever i feel like. Its for fun. Any guy would run away if they think their girlfriend is trying to control us
Me - im not trying to control u
Him - it feels like it. And you always take things seriously. Joke around more. Its not fun you know?
Me - so u think im boring?
Him - well yeah sometimes. You dont talk much. You dont joke around. You take evrything srsly. And that gets boring
Me - so you're not happy with me?
Him - i didn't say that. Im happy with u. you're the best partner I've ever had and thats the truth. Its just that i needed to tell u all this. I dont like being controlled and i want u to talk more. Sometimes i feel like im talking to a brick wall. You only talk if i talk to you. You only respond. Its frustrating sometimes.
Me - ok. Sounds like ur not happy with me. Just leave if u dont wanna be with me
Him - no im not saying that. you're taking it the wrong way. I am happy with u. If i wasn't, i wouldn't be with you. Simple. If i dont want something, i dont want it. I would leave. If i didn't care, i wouldn't call back when you're pissed off. I wanna be with u but i just wish you would talk more. You have good qualities like you're loyal, you're a good girl, you're good listener and everything else you're good.

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Flirting

Just friendship or more than friendship?

The other day, a close friend of mine sent me this message on WhatsApp , the message was this "this just happened, you are typing," I hadn't actually spoken to her for a while so I dunno if she had been checking my last...

incandescentwithsage

Xper 5 Age: 40

Girl's Behavior

Is there a sign she's interested or is this just friendship?

incandescentwithrage

Xper 3 Age: 40

Dating

He doesn’t know basic details about me, when he acts interested all the time. Isn't he that into me?

Hello, I have a question: I met this guy about 5 years ago, we stayed in touch on Facebook, never met again. Since August we are heavily texting and want to meet soon (because he lives in a different country now). He was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I had sex with his sister, what to do?

Awhile ago, i had a one night stand with a girl. No strings attached. I met her at a club, the very first club i had ever been to. I was always quiet and reserved growing up, very modest and the goody two shoes. I wanted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do guys notice flaws in a girl body?

Let’s say your going to have sex with a girl and or it’s her first time and she’s self conscious about her body, do you guys notice those things? If so how would you go about with the situation? Would you still date her?...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

I'm pretty sure she likes me after this, opinions?

I was at a party and the girl I like was there. We have been texting and snapping a lot the last few weeks but this was the first time we saw each other in person for a few months. At the beginning of the night we didn't...

Canada_boy

Xper 5 Age: 24

Dating

What's the first thing you notice about a guy or girl when you first meet them?

josh_bays

Xper 6 Age: 26

Dating

I have open bite (jaw deformity) and it makes me so insecure that I dont dare to date. I am 22 and never had a boyfriend before. Advice?

I've met a guy online and he wants to see me. We both like each other's appearance and personality. BUT! I didn't tell him I have open bite (lack of occlusion of the front teeth when the jaw is closed normally) and that's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Does she like me?

(Warning: shit tons of bad grammar) Hey! So yeah, i like this girl. She's 16, I'm 17. We have a few classes together, sometimes we have events in school where we basically spend the whole day together. Note:...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why did he even text me anything?

This guy waited 3 weeks to respond to if he really cared about text that he sent. He waited 3 weeks and he was an asshole, my first, and someone I wanted to be with genuinely but he just wanted to use me and he did. So I...

Anonymous

(30-35)