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I was sitting at the picnic tables with my friends today on campus when we saw this guy who's known for being incredibly irrational & always "flirting" with almost every girl he see's on Campus (I'll just call him Lenny cause I don't wanna use his real name) so he's "hunting" girls as he usually says & is extremely physical to the third girl that he meets. He's really loud and was sitting next to us so we could pretty mich hear everything he says. The first five minutes is all good but then he starts being way to physical with her hugging, grabbing her body & her phone as she constantly pushes him away yelling at him telling him to get off of her & to get tf out of her face. Its been 10 minutes now & Lenny is straight up harassing this girl he doesn't realize because in his head he thinks she's flirting but I don't think that "stop grabbing me" is flirting especially with someone you first met. It was bugging me so I thought to myself since Lenny thinks I'm his friend I can lure him away to tell me about his "12 hour" workout stories. So I got up and asked Lenny if he'd walk with me to the cafeteria to get food he said sure & as I was walking away with him I looked back at the girl and gave her a signal to leave so that Lenny doesn't find her. I'm not sure that she got my signal but she did leave by the time we came back. My mom said that I was wrong to do this & that she should've walked away herself. Was stepping in the right thing to do. Sorry this was so long. If you have any questions feel free to ask me.

I’m thinking of telling her how I feel and asking if she wants to get dinner or a drink.

Lots of times, I definitely think she’s into me. My best friend who is a girl thinks she’s totally into me. That friend told the girl I’m interested in that she liked me, and she was adamant against her telling me and since then they’ve had a bad relationship.

The girl I like is pretty flirty, she sits next to me in meetings and jokes and picks on me. We Snapchat a lot (less recently) and text all thr time, though a lot of that is Student Senate related. When were going to a meeting or class, she always asks if I want to walk with her or if I need a ride. Lately, I’ve been going to her house and talking with her about jobs, what to do after college, whether to go to law school, and just life. One time at lunch with out mutual friend, she asked me if I’d hold her hand at the store, and I laughed (thinking joke) but she seemed genuinely sad. The members of Student Senate think there is something going on between us.

Last spring at a huge school party day, she came into my room and begged me to take shots. I did, but there she asked why my friend hated her and said that she did not like me more than a friend if that was the problem. But, she says she doesn’t remember anything from that night. Also, she frequently has invited me to drink with her friends.

This past week her, our mutual friend and some other went to a bar after a big gala on campus. I sent her a snap of me in my tux and she said “daaannng boooiii.” At the bar we had a blast, and talked a lot and flirted a bit. Her friends asked me to get her to do a particular dance, and I took that to mean she might be into me if she’d do it for me. That Sunday, I went over and talked to her for a bit. After I left, she told me she tried to set me up with this “really pretty” girl but she was engaged at the bar. My friend told me she was probably looking to see how I’d respond. Thoughts?