If there's one word to describe my boyfriend, it would be DENSE. I swear, even before we were together, he doesn't know his limits to being friends with girls. Now, I currently have control over his facebook account and i was tempted to check his chatbox. After weeks of temptation, I opened it and let me tell you, I WASN'T pleased. I mean, he's a great guy and yeah he has looks but seriously? care to think of me when you're chatting one of your female friends. I'm not the territorial/possessive/controlling girlfriend, I actually let him do what he wants unless its definitely wrong but as his girlfriend, I have my right to be cautious when I see "I love youuu" and hearts even tho it was meant as a friend because the way (others and) i see it, its already flirting right now, not to mention i found one even make a bad joke (in my opinion) I mean, i really want to just let it go but seeing the joke made by the girl joking for him to give her a child, like WTF? not to mention... I'm very insecure, his friends are definitely not ugly... every now and then I check his chatbox (he doesn't know) and feel myself getting more insecure and scared every day, he's already practically flirting with them for crying out loud. I mean, let's see, hearts, "I love you's", telling them their beautiful, etc. I'm scared he'll break up with me someday.. heck, because of all this, I cry at night and his words that "i'm his only one" don't assure me anymore. why don't i bring this up to him? we have a relationship with trust but if there's one thing i know, his female friends are the one topic wherein I always lose a fight between us. I'm confused, hurt and I don't know what to do anymore... advice please.. i can't put everything so feel free to ask questions
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