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In my personal life, I’ve been a part of men’s groups, and dated women who attended female-only groups. Neither of us ever demanded to invade the others space, but instead supported each other in our individual gender-specific self-development. My girlfriends understood that allowing me to develop my masculinity in the company of other men would only make me a better man for them, and I understood that allowing women to develop their femininity in the company of other women would only make them better women for me.
I’ve seen men’s groups have a profound effect on the men who participate. Many men find it difficult to talk about their challenges in the presences of women who might judge them for the problems they face. Male-safe spaces allow men express themselves in a way mainstream integrated culture does not allow.
Likewise, many men have experienced deep personal transformation through the manosphere, and other online communities of men dedicated to self-improvement. Return of Kings and the manosphere in general is known for speaking truth in a very blunt, sometimes confrontational style, many women would find insensitive. As a man, I enjoy being challenged, and would prefer a harsh truth to a pretty lie.
The women and gays demanding entrance into straight male spaces are not interested in men’s needs or self-development. Because they feel disconnected from their femininity as women, or disconnected from their masculinity as gays, men’s attempts to connect to their own masculine power threatens them. Rather than develop themselves or their own space-spaces, they attack others personal growth, and unique culture.
The message women and gays have sent is essentially, “let us into your all male-spaces so we can change them to suit our needs or we’ll call you misogynists, homophobes, bigots, and the worst labels our culture has.” With that attitude, it’s no wonder men don’t welcome them in.

Me and my girlfriend of 7 months have been on bad terms for the past two weeks or so. this whole week i've been distant and ignoring her. I told her that I needed things to change if we wanted to keep things going. Last night i went to go see her and she said that she doesn't think things can change. We slept together and i slept over and then this morning she wanted to go get lunch before she left for the weekend. I said do you want me to take my stuff? I was confused as to what was happening she said ok we packed up my car and I asked her if this is what she wanted, she said it wasn't but it was best we hugged and kissed for almost an hour in front of our cars. I dont want this to be over, do i just wait for her to come back after her weekend away and tell her I want to work this out? or do i do this right away? Will some space change her thoughts? Just on Wednesday she as texing saying she'd do whatever it took to make this work.