Search Results: good time to pursue him

Guys, CALLING ALL GUYS! I need your Opinions/advise?

If a guy says he's not looking for a relationship but then pursues one a few months later did it mean he just wasn't that into you? I was seeing/dating a guy for 6-7 month it started purely as friends but then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Meeting new people/ askingn a crush out?

So here is the deal. I got to a university where I can leave often, the academic and physical requirements are exceptional, and time is a ta premium. Recently had to leave a pretty abusive relationship and group of...

Polocrossebob

Xper 5 Age: 28

What the F%#K is Wrong with Me?

So, I've been a guy for a good.. I'd say 20 years and 2 months on this Earth, and surprise, surprise I've never had a partner. I can't say that I'm not attractive, but at the same time I can't say that I am. Half of the...

Kilam4evur

Xper 4 Age: 28

What should I do?

I've spent a few months working as a doctor in a busy and sometimes high adrenaline unit. Over the last week I have found myself captivated by a new nursing student on the unit. She is the sort of girl who would normally...

Wonderingfool

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Girl suddenly goes cold?

So recently I met this girl as part of a group in uni and we got along pretty well. I talked to her on multiple occasions and we seemed to have good chemistry. Additionally, we also texted, although I had to initiate most...

CuriousMale

Xper 5 Age: 37

Relationships

I have played matchmaker with my crush and friend of mine at work it seemed like the right thing to do?

So i have a had crush on this girl for awhile and i am certain she was into me and she is also good friends with a friend of mine. I recently made the mistake in believe they had hooked or sleeping together since they...

TheNoOne

Xper 6 Age: 34

Relationships

Is my boyfriend settling for me since I'm his first girlfriend? I need honest opinions?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We are both in our early/ mid 20s. I am his first girlfriend and he is my second serious relationship. My boyfriend and I met through a mutual friend and have been...

Caligurl92

Xper 4 Age: 34

Would he tell his friends that I calm him down if he only likes me as a friend?

There's a guy who I thought liked me, and he told one friend I had just been introduced to that I really "took him down a notch / calmed him down". Last week, I found out he's been "casually" dating another girl for the...

Shygirl977

Xper 7 Age: 37

Is there still a chance?

This guy lives across the country but we've been seeing each other for a little over two months. Not entirely on purpose and not like officially, it's just sort of continued to work out. He came out last week for a hockey...

lyssalady13

Xper 6 Age: 35

What’s the right way to pull away (in the game of attraction), to see if the girl starts pursuing?

Constant pushing can get boring for the recipient, and maybe make them uncomfortable if the guy is too aggressive, or make him seem socially inept and devoid of finesse. Pulling away can make the girl more involved in the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do I pursue or move on?

I've recently (six months ago) become very good friends with someone from my school and we get along like two peas in a pod. I enjoy myself around her more than anyone and for the first time (yes, I understand that I'm...

JeepersRubicorn

Xper 4 Age: 26

Education & Career

Welcome to the Twenties: College Myths

College. When I was younger I thought it was a whole new world to look forward to. Having freedom, getting the chance to focus on studies I'm actually interested in, partying, dating, drinking and just having a good time....

Anonymous

(30-35)

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I really like him and he's distancing himself?

I'm studying abroad and met a guy I've started to deeply care for. We have hung out every day in the last few weeks, have a great connection, and he has told me multiple times how much he likes me, wants to be with me...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Being actively chased despite a fairly intimidating age/grade difference... how should I proceed?

Hey all! Thanks for clicking. Let's set the scene. I'm a 15 year old guy, turning 16 later in November. I practice my sport at the same time as a group of swimmers across the pool. But recently, over the course of the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he ACTUALLY into me?

To give a little back story I always lowkey kind of thought this guy had a crush on me just based on the way he acted when I was around. Like, the first time I saw him in person after we'd been texting for awhile he was...

BabySnailll

Xper 2 Age: 27

Do men leave good girls do deal with stress?

Hi there, this might be a bit long so bear with me. I met my boyfriend in July and it was basically love at first sight. We fell for one another the day we met, we seemed like the perfect match for one another...

Brook99

Xper 4 Age: 33

Why aren't I ever good enough?

I've been trying to lose weight, I already lost about 10 lbs. and still... I feel ugly. I want to lose 50 lbs.. but it seems like I don't get any male attention, yes I struggle with insecurity but I always feel confident...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What causes a guy to lose interest suddenly in a girl?

I was being heavily pursued by a guy who was constantly texting asking me to hang out so I finally went and hung out with him. We had drinks, a great first date he paid for dinner and a hott passionate night followed. He...

Beckz0811

Xper 5 Age: 38