So i have a had crush on this girl for awhile and i am certain she was into me and she is also good friends with a friend of mine. I recently made the mistake in believe they had hooked or sleeping together since they were both offline and became active on fb with thirty minutes of each-other. I felt pretty terrible about it but by Monday i decided to move on if they had hooked up but it turns out my friend was just sick over the weekend and they both posted updates close together a coincidence.
So despite my previous resolve left me after hearing that i tried pursue again one last time i even commented on a pic which is something i never do but thought whatever and did it anyway but when i see her She is still shy and awkward barely audible if not more so than last week so after a few failed attempts at getting her to small talk one with her seemly ignoring me apparently ignoring me and looking kind of awkward when i was nearby i decided to keep my distance the rest of the day. She seemed rather normal the rest of day chatting and joking about with others i caught her looking at me from a distance a few times but maybe she was checking to see if i was checking her out still which i was but as subtle possible and occasionally make eye contact a few times which i could be a signal. I also noticed she was talking to my friend which she does from time to time but i noticed she did it with much more frequency today. Later in the day after limiting my attention while she was talking to my friend again she turned her head looked right at me before resuming her full attention on him though my friend might of said something she was trying to get a reaction out me for staying away. or whatever. Anyway towards the end of my shift they were on later one after doing him a favor which i took as big IOU since girls don't do favors unless your very good friends or your in fact interested. Meanwhile i was trying my best not to let it get to me despite my own interests...
So despite my previous resolve left me after hearing that i tried pursue again one last time i even commented on a pic which is something i never do but thought whatever and did it anyway but when i see her She is still shy and awkward barely audible if not more so than last week so after a few failed attempts at getting her to small talk one with her seemly ignoring me apparently ignoring me and looking kind of awkward when i was nearby i decided to keep my distance the rest of the day. She seemed rather normal the rest of day chatting and joking about with others i caught her looking at me from a distance a few times but maybe she was checking to see if i was checking her out still which i was but as subtle possible and occasionally make eye contact a few times which i could be a signal. I also noticed she was talking to my friend which she does from time to time but i noticed she did it with much more frequency today. Later in the day after limiting my attention while she was talking to my friend again she turned her head looked right at me before resuming her full attention on him though my friend might of said something she was trying to get a reaction out me for staying away. or whatever. Anyway towards the end of my shift they were on later one after doing him a favor which i took as big IOU since girls don't do favors unless your very good friends or your in fact interested. Meanwhile i was trying my best not to let it get to me despite my own interests...
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She became increasing attentive and i was thinking she is totally hitting on him as subtle a sledgehammer without giggling or touching unlike around me she perfectly comfortable around him. So i came to a eureka moment that she was totally hitting on him which despite my own interests was rather interesting. Anyway i felt the urge to tell him since he seemed oblivious and despite feeling kind of annoyed by her i thought despite her floors she was pretty sweet and single and he was good guy.
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Another friend who was had different opinion of her behavior but i digress. My shift ended and on the way i messaged him on facebook alerting him to fact having known he liked her for quite awhile too. It was weird feeling playing matchmaker but i felt good too and kind of relieved and some time later after their shift ended he replied back seemly inspired to make a move somehow. I am hoping them hooking up will be enough to finally let her go after her driving me crazy the last two months. fin
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