My two perfect friends are now getting married. How do I stop feeling inadequate about myself because of this?

MCheetah
I'm an introvert and usually don't keep too many friends (50% of all of my "friends" end up stabbing me in the back), but before I left the US back in 2019, I had two friends there. I used to co-coordinate a Meetup. com board game night every Friday evening downtown, which had people from around town come in and play board games for four hours. That is where I first met Skyler in 2016.

Skyler is an 8.5/10, gorgeous, six foot tall, raven-haired substitute teacher. I first had a crush on her, but while we get along well, are too different in personality (she's a conservative woman and very Christian). Even though I hate being friendzoned, I remained her friend and would see her every Friday.

About a year later, DJ first came to the meetup. He's a 6'2" local actor and musician who's handsome-as-f*ck dude from an Italian American family who has abs without ever going to the gym. We get along super-well because he's modest, almost as intelligent as I am, and pretty based. If not for his big mouth; I'm pretty sure he'd be a panty-dropper to most women as well, but he's too opinionated on news and current events.

Both Skyler and DJ are cool people, but I feel insecure around them because they're tall, perfect looking, and very likeable, all of which is the total opposite of me.

When DJ first came to our Meetup, he was dating a girl already, but they soon split apart. Because I knew both of them so well, Skyler begged me for the details of DJ and wanted to date him. I reluctantly played matchmaker and got DJ to talk to Skyler, where she gave him her number. This was in 2018. I just saw yesterday on Facebook that Skyler and DJ are now getting married, which makes me feel even more insecure and hate life more.

How do I stop feeling this way? I am happy for these two perfect people getting married, but it also makes me feel worse about my own life.
Skyler and DJ are the working class counterparts to Gina Carano and Henry Cavill; so I just used their picture.
Skyler and DJ are the working class counterparts to Gina Carano and Henry Cavill; so I just used their picture.
My two perfect friends are now getting married. How do I stop feeling inadequate about myself because of this?
My two perfect friends are now getting married. How do I stop feeling inadequate about myself because of this?
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