Skyler is an 8.5/10, gorgeous, six foot tall, raven-haired substitute teacher. I first had a crush on her, but while we get along well, are too different in personality (she's a conservative woman and very Christian). Even though I hate being friendzoned, I remained her friend and would see her every Friday.
About a year later, DJ first came to the meetup. He's a 6'2" local actor and musician who's handsome-as-f*ck dude from an Italian American family who has abs without ever going to the gym. We get along super-well because he's modest, almost as intelligent as I am, and pretty based. If not for his big mouth; I'm pretty sure he'd be a panty-dropper to most women as well, but he's too opinionated on news and current events.
Both Skyler and DJ are cool people, but I feel insecure around them because they're tall, perfect looking, and very likeable, all of which is the total opposite of me.
When DJ first came to our Meetup, he was dating a girl already, but they soon split apart. Because I knew both of them so well, Skyler begged me for the details of DJ and wanted to date him. I reluctantly played matchmaker and got DJ to talk to Skyler, where she gave him her number. This was in 2018. I just saw yesterday on Facebook that Skyler and DJ are now getting married, which makes me feel even more insecure and hate life more.
How do I stop feeling this way? I am happy for these two perfect people getting married, but it also makes me feel worse about my own life.


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