Your spouse or your kids or both are equal?
Depends are we talking I can only save my spouse or my kids lives or who do I put on a pedestal?
For the first question, saving kids if they are not old enough to save themselves. In all other cases the wife comes first. I can make more kids. My kids know I love them and will see them in heaven. Is this a joke... maybe.
Joking aside the spousal relationship comes first. I love my kids, they are all grown now, but they are only temporary residents in my house and have to learn to build a life of their own.
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It's a tough one. And maybe changes over time. When kids are kids I think they have to come first. It your role as a parent to provide and protect them above all else. Once they're grown up then you're partner should be no.1
With all due respect, I would choose my spouse. Cause he wil be the only who will be there with me. Kids will grow up and move out of their nest to hav thier own lives, I may come across selfish for not choosing kids ( cause generally women are expected to put their kids first) I will love them whole heartedly, and will do my duties as a mom, but I want to spend my life with my spouse peacefully after the kids start having their own lives.
It'd be fucked up to put one over the other. Equal.
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I'll be honest, I know my husband is supposed to come first BUT I think motherhood might alter my perspective on things.🤱
My first instincts would be to save the children before my husband and I don't know if that makes me a selfish wife. I just really love children and they're our future. We have to protect them and nurture them at all costs.βοΈ
I am taken aback by women here who picked kids even when you gave the EQUAL option
I'd never compare or see any difference between my husband and child
Spouse and kids (including pets) I have lots of limbs and like an octopus. I can be in many places at once. When you are needed you get things done.
Well biblically you become one with your husband or wife so they technically come before the kids biblically speaking. But of course if there is a house fire, you're going to go for the kids first over the spouse. So I guess in cases of life or death, the kids would come first.
I don't know until I'm there yet, then I can reply to this
Spouse.
Are my kids going to hold me at night? Are they going to live with me until they die? Do they choose to be with me? Etc. No, it is a lifelong lover who is going to do that.
I think it would be equal.. but deep down I'd probably love my wife more than anyone else..
I can't love anybody on earth more than my Wife
kids by default.
he can go to the toilet, shower, cook and look after himself. my kids can't.Itβs supposed to be spouse first and then children.
Unless she turns into a raving abusive lunaticβ¦I loved my family equally..
It depends on how old the kids are.
Kids, always. Both parents should agree on this.
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depends... comes first, on what?
My spouse. We are team
If I had kids of course they come first
Kids, but not by much
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