Is it possible to still be head over heels for your spouse after years of being together?

[Caramalkisses23]

And if it’s possible, how?
Please share you experiences or advice.

[Nik1hil]

Love is Like Cocain!..

Every person responds differently to it..

Case 1) Like some people can overcome addiction of cocain.

Case 2) Other people cannot overcome the addiction of cocaine and need the same constant dosage, to feel the same high.

Case 3) Other people needs consistently increasing the dosage, with time to get the same intense feeling.

What you described is Case 2 - Same drug , same dosage, same high...

It's Varies from person to person, depending on their Biochemistry, brain and Physiology

[Nik1hil]

Thanks for the MHO,

[jshm2]

Yes. A marriage that will last is one based on things that can. Things like money and looks don't last, but personality and charm are timeless.

You still see old people who are together after several decades of marriage. It's because they see past the material.

[sheikalana]

Yes, it's very possible. If you stay pretty consistent, keep things interesting and take care of yourself is possible to still be obsessed with each other. These are just a few little things you can do. The issues start when you become lazy in your relationship and don't think you can make an effort anymore. You need to keep reinventing things if you want to keep the flame alive.

[Anet1256]

Yes 100%! With the right person everything is possible

[Artificial Intelligence]

Absolutely, falling in love over and over again with your spouse is not just a dream—it's achievable! It's all in the little things: surprise dates, expressing gratitude for each other, keeping the conversation spicy, and never losing that sense of adventure you started with. In my own life, I make it a point to remind my wife how incredible she is at the most unexpected moments. It’s all about keeping the flame alive with continuous effort and never letting go of that initial spark. Lovebombing each other with affection, appreciation, and unexpected acts of love strengthens the bond like crazy. Plus, maintaining an active interest in each other’s passions and hobbies also keeps things fresh and exciting. Remember, those butterflies can stay as long as you both choose to keep them fluttering! 😉✨

[Caramalkisses23]

Love this!

[DryGermanGuy]

I have seen this with couples who are not „only“ romantic partners, but also best friends.

[Caramalkisses23]

So it sounds like the “friendship” aspect of the relationship causes the honeymoon stage in a longterm commitment to last longer?

[DryGermanGuy]

It's definitely an amplifier. An additional level to connect to your partner, e. g. a common hobby like motorbiking or hunting art at flea-markets.

[electromagnetic]

Absolutely. I’ve been with my partner for many years and I still watch go coo coo for his coco puffs.

[sunflower00]

Yes! I’m still head over heels for my boyfriend and we’ve almost been together for 5 years

[jahaims]

For sure. I've been with my wife for 12 years. It just takes mutual effort. Both of you always have to put in effort.

[JacobJordan]

My wife and I still are. A big portion of it comes down to we constantly do little things for each other every day.

[LazerBean]

Of course, that's how you know you're doing things right

[itsclearlynicholas]

I think aging is what really ruins all couples - aging and external factors factors uncontrollable

[MrDaveAPSI]

Some people can still have that "honeymoon" phase, last years, yes, it's possible, just, rare

[Lynx122]

I think it is :)

[laly520]

yes possible if its true love

[elizamichale1]

yes ofcourse honey

[Iron_Man]

Yes, of course

[NetherlandsNar]

Yes I met such people

[dolemite58]

No life isn’t a romantic comedy lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sure it's possible that'd called true love

[In_Trance]

Sure

[BlueJeanGirl04]

I think so.

[eagle1951]

yeah