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Since I was very young my hair started thinning, at 18 I got tired of looking old so I got the Bic razor out and shaved it to the skin. It works ok, I'm slender and pale but head shape and face were decent for it. But I'm very self concious and think that most girls my age will not be attracted to it. I admit looks matter, we have to find our partner physically attractive as well as mentally so I don't blame girls for it. But there I a girl a year younger than me,(19 now) I like and want to talk to more but I just can't imagine a good looking 18 year old dating a bald 19 year old even if it's shaved. So I need to know, from young will this really hurt my chances? will I be at a disadvantage compared to guys with hair?

As you can probably guess I started losing hair very young (18), not exactly tradition balding but still, my only option is a shaved head and I mean to the skin. I actually like it and despite being a skinny pale guy can pull it off okay thanks to head shape being good. But I wondered if this affected dating and attracting the pretty girl so to speak. I made the mistake of going to baldtruthtalk a site for guys or gals with hairloss and asked if it affected other young guys in the dating world. I'll spare you the details but I was lashed at saying if expect to attract any kinda girl who's attractive I'm screwed. (Please keep in mind that is what they said) but rather than listen to a bunch of brats who relied on hair too much I figured I'd ask girls my age. So young ladies, is a bald (shaved) head on a male peer a dealbreaker or generally unattractive? Will I be at a big disadvantage? Personal opinions on it? And do most women in their 20's find it repelling? (or most women in general) I need honesty if those guys were right tell me, if not great but I want to know if this'll hamper my chances young

I'm an 18 year old guy who has had on and off bouts of alopecia. It was under control mostly but recently after a stressful incident a group of follicles were killed off, so my only option is to shave it to the skin, not even a shadow as it looks patchy. Personally I don't mind it, I pull it off okay (kinda surprising as I'm a slender pale guy) but whenever I see an axe commercial I get self conscious. So would young women in thier late teens or early twenties be put off by a guy who approached them with a chromdome? Will I be considered less attractive than 'hairy' guys right off the bat? Or am I just overthinking it? Be honest please-I admit looks are a required first step for me to be interested in a girl and I know it works the same for them. I just feel like at this age or twenties most girls couldn't get past it or would view me as older and weird.