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Ummmm -

Help.

Via online dating I met a guy who woo'ed me. Flowers, Chocolates, Teddy Bear, Perfume.

Then I meet him - he's going bald and quite thin. Not the tanned, muscley, full-head-of-hair younger version of him.

I overlook the physicaly shortcomings because hello I'm human and have them too. He was enigmatic, vivacious, loud, engaging, full of jokes and - drunk.

I stupidly slept with him on the first night after going home alone (he called incessantly and finally I allowed him to come over).

I saw him two weeks later for a booty call after I realized he's not serious about dating. It had been a while for me and I thought oh well I will take it for what it is and leave it at that - but he wanted to 'hang out' afterward. He revealed that his brother is part of a gang in Sydney, shows me photos of 'the new Chopper Reid' - a notorious Sydney criminal who he's friends with. Blasts 'Hed P.E' all while talking about how cool him and his 'gang' are. How they are brutal but, all nice to him so - they're cool. (IDIOT!) in my head I'm thinking um buddy it's only a matter of time before they turn on you. you might have a nice apartment and money now, but they are using you and your 'trucking' business for their own agenda.

So - from being a self-confessed 'mummys boy' to 'gang member facilitator' over the few weeks I knew him, (he owns a warehouse they 'use' as a bikie club)...um. Isn't that false advertising?! And how the hell do people get so good at REELING you in and then droppig you flat with reality?! I REALLy thought he was a good, sound, humble business man! This is so far away from what I expected!

Needless to say - shall never be booty calling him - again. And I've turned off online dating for a while...

maybe it really is better to just be single and wait. so many freaks out there.

Oh! and he bragged about how he and these gangs guys see cop cars from his apartment and smash fruit and random objects on their cars. or throw lemons at peoples heads...he's 28.

Wow.

WOWWWWWW

Kill me now. Seriously. ARGH!

I had a first date last Friday night (it's now Thursday here in Australia).



I had spoken to this guy online for a month. We exchanged numbers after a week and a half of emails. We spoke every second day with texting in between - then spoke nearly every day on the phone.



He asked me on a date and then sent roses to my work with some perfume I mentioned I liked. I had to cancel the date because I forgot I had my fathers birthday - so I gave him 3 days notice. He still seemed to pull back a bit even after I explained.

I tried to make up for it. But he wasn't calling and texting as much as was a little stand-off-ish.

We finally met on Friday and he apologized for pulling away. I told him not to worry about it. He was a bit tipsy when I arrived and just 'happy'. We talked a lot and then we kissed after about 2 hours. I excused myself as I felt a bit tipsy and went home.



He called me when I got home (about 10:45pm), and wanted to hang out more. I should have said no but I really wanted to just be with him. He came over and unfortunately (or fortunately), we slept together.

It was way too soon. I thought I wouldn't hear from him at all - but I did. He blames himself for the night being like that, and excused himself for being drunk. Having said that, it's now Thursday and while I got a call on Tuesday, and an offer to see him on Wednesday (to watch a football match with him and his friends), he still feels 'different'. He doesn't text me first thing in the morning, or call every second day at lunch...but yet he assured me he still wants another date...I'm just wondering why he hasn't set it up yet?

So if a guy goes from about 10 texts a day to 5, and one call every two days to one call every three days...is he not interested anymore? Despite saying that he is? He also said he felt bad and asked if he 'f*cked things up'? I told him no. But also I did feel vulnerable and pulled back a bit too.

Guys, I like him still. how do I play this? Also I've pulled back on texts and I don't call. I'm giving him space - cause it seems like he wants it or something?