Search Results: scared of sex

Infections or disease scare?

I’ve done oral sex before.. I don’t think I have anything. But sometimes I get into my head too much & look up stuff & I get scared & feel like I should get tested but... scared to know if I do have anything? 😭 or is it...

chexmix7

Xper 3 Age: 29

Am I being played?

Met him on bumble & we hit it off. First meet was a double date with his friends. Friends were really nice & inclusive. Went back to his place, met his mom, ended up having sex. Second time was a few days later he came to...

Lara5348

Xper 4 Age: 29

What scares you about the opposite sex?

Wowgirl30q

Editor Age: 37

I received flowers and a text from a narcissistic, abusive ex and now I'm scared. What should I do?

He sent me flowers for my birthday and I didn't even know it was him. He sent me a text a few minutes ago saying that I should have at least said thank you and that it bothered him that I hated him so much. Honestly. I am...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Found sex videos what should I do?

So I know I shouldn’t have gone through my bfs phone but I did and this is the first. But anyway this phone is his old iphone before switching a month ago. He recently charged it so it was on. He left and I was curious...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Scared to be in a relationship?

I've never been in a relationship and at this point I'm scared. I was homeschooled through middle and high school so I didn't get to have a normal social life. I went to a community college where there wasn't much chance...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to not feel this way?

I moved out a state for a guy I have been with for about 4 years but it's a not so great relationship. He does nothing with me, no sex life at all either we don't even kiss, he stays on Xbox all day long and thinks it's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he really interested or is he playing me?

There's a guy I met on bumble & he asked for my snap. The first time we met was at his house & we met his friends at the bar. He slowly started to touch me, like brushing my leg, holding my hand, holding me by the waist,...

Lara5348

Xper 4 Age: 29

Family & Friends

How can I make my sister feel better?

My sister was watching a movie about those 3 teens that were abducted in Cleveland over a decade ago. She's scared of being kidnapped because of her mental disabilities and health issues she wouldn't survive a kidnapping...

Countryman1999

Xper 3 Age: 29

Meeting long distance crush. Please help with my anxiety?

So I’m meeting her in 9 days. There are a few things other than meeting her that are making me more anxious. A few months ago, I had hyperthyroidism. I lost 40 pounds going from 6’2 170 to 6’2 130 in less than two months....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Does he like me? can anyone please help me out?

can anyone help me determine if this guy likes me? So my guy friend and i got super close in the beginning of the year. we had a class together. we were also both in heartbreak. i was sad bc of his friend and him bc...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel like im wasting my years😭?

im now 21 since July and i feel like im running out of time for a few reasons. One im not very sexually active but id like to be. I only had sex the first time in June there and it wasn't even fun. I get scared to go on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He doesn't want to kiss me?

My boyfriend barely kisses me. He told me he doesn't want to have sex anymore because he's scared to get me pregnant and he feels its wrong to do before marriage. I feel like I have to beg for him to show me affection,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

How to initiate sex?

i love my virginity a little over a month ago. i’m not longer with the guy. i met this new guy and he’s 3 years older than me so obviously more experienced than me. I’m just nervous bc i don’t have much experience with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do? Long post please read all?

So I've been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. There's no sex, kissing, hugging, nada. He hardly spends any time with me always on his Xbox or phone acts like playing some games with me late at night is ok as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did my friends w benefit guy fall in love w me?

So me and this guy has been friends w benefits or something i don’t even know we basically always have sex. (for like 3 months now.) & He took my V) Everytime we’ve had sex he didn’t wanted me to stay longer And i always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did my friends w benefits guy catch feelings for me?

So me and this guy has been friends w benefits for like 3 months now. (& He took my V) Everytime we’ve had sex he didn’t wanted me to stay longer And i always left. I’ve had feelings for him since day 1 But i’m scared to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I tell my soon to be ex girlfriend that I don’t want to see her anymore at all?

I recently talked to my girlfriend about how i’m not ready for a relationship with her. She thinks I just got to know her to have sex with her and move on, but I am Christian, premarital sex was the worst mistake I’ve...

Anonymous

(25-29)