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Search Results: scaring men away
Torn between the two. Need advice?
I have an issue that is too much for me to process at the moment. So I am looking for insight and different POVs from you guys. Here is my situation: I am 25yrs old, single (still a virgin), and I have only been focusing...
Virgin_Beauty
Xper 3 Age: 35 I have constant fear of losing my boyfriend, does anyone else have this issue in relationships?
So, I've had 4 other boyfriends in the past, plus some unofficial ones. None of them lasted too long term (most were only a few months) and almost all of them came on strong and then pulled away. Very hot and cold. They...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does being a frustrated virgin increase your chances of being a mass-shooter?
Bill Maher made a joke the other night about how all of these mass shooters have had one major thing in common, they were all male virgins living in frustration with the fact that everyone around them is having sex all...
Anonymous
(30-35) Redefining My Femininity
I'm no feminist (egalitarian pride over here) but I do find it pretty sexist when my femininity is attacked. My femininity has been the subject of a lot of debate and even direct criticism, primarily at the hands of my...
Anonymous
(30-35) 51yr woman 24yr man- can I get things back? what is it that he is feeling?
Im a 51yr old, married woman- met this 24 yr man, i felt a motherly love, he is an orphan-We live in different cities. he asked me to make love (fuck obviously) I said no. eventually we did, months later i was caressing...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I'm still a big fan of MJ ❤️ RIP You will always in my heart. Why people sometimes can't get over to someone/something?
I remember when I was a child I always hear the Billie Jean song and my mother start to dance to rythymn and I wonder why my mother is so affected on that music with a thin voice that I actually can't understand what's...
Bipolargemini
Xper 5 Age: 35 Getting the actual type of guy you want to approach you
So I've noticed a trend lately about girls being approached but still having zero luck in actually getting a relationship. Some say they attract virtually every type of guy except the type they actually want to be with....
Octavius
Guru Age: 32 What do I do about this stupid anxiety?
I don't know were to start so thos is gonna be random... i am damn anxious to go outside... its most of the time, i can't go outside by my self feeling okay, it will be like the whole earth has there eyes on me and...
blazerock44
Xper 7 Age: 27 Men what kind of body type do you have?
A.) The only body type that turns women on. B.) Chubby and ugly C.) The type of body that scares women away.
Aeon_Flux_21
Xper 6 Age: 40 
The Male attributes Females are most attracted to
Most women prefer dominant alpha males, this is related to their genetically encoded attraction towards the hunter-provider male whom nature has proven to possess the greatest reproductive fitness. But what exactly does...
the_rake
Editor Age: 34 Guys, Men and the Future? What to do?
My boyfriend of around a year and a half have been living together for the past five months. We agreed to have a talk in October, because we had planned to make a move to a new city in Janurary and both agreed we should...
crazybeautiful7877
Xper 2 Age: 38 Am I too harsh? Part two?
You know why I changed my mind on getting married and having kids? It's because of you two. You would constantly fight! Everyday you had a reason to fight. I don't want to be with a man like him who would threaten me! Who...
Anonymous
(25-29) Advice: I battle to balance being nice, being flirty and being overboard?
I can talk to anyone. Approaching and chatting to any girl is something that is very easy to do and I do it always, its like my lifestyle. But my problem is escalation and holding her interest. Chatting to a girl makes me...
Scrambledagain
Explorer Age: 43 Women Want Nice/Good Guys, Not Pushovers! Men and Women Create False Friendships.
Be Clear With Your Intentions and Create Real Relationships Many, many times I hear that girls always go for the "bad boys" or the "jerks". The reality is that it isn't how they are "bad" or a "jerk that makes them...
NervousToTheMax
Xper 6 Age: 38 Weird story, what should I do?
I was lost in the new city nearly crying with my luggage, not knowing where is my road to new house at 2 am. And then one man came up from the last bus and helped me. He invited me to his house, offered me tea, asked...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I over reacting or could these be signs of a future abusive or dangerous man?
Hello again. I've been with my man for 3 months. I'm 20, he's 29. He's my first love, first everything. We met in our hometowns, but this past week I have been an hour away back at college. He lived with his parents...
Anonymous
(30-35) Playing games or unstable? honestly at my wits end?
could you please help me out with my situation? I am an attractive, smart, lean 24 year old who liked this 32 year old ex marine at my unit. He is sort of cute, is a father, and somewhat funny. He was the one to approach...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do Asian men fear rejection? Or are they rejecting me?
I have dated 2 Chinese boys and after a date or two I had the same outcome. They stopped talking to me. One of them is actually running if I try to talk to him. Both of them really seemed extremely interested at the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you women get turned off when you see a guy who gets scared of a guy bigger than him and only acts though around guys smaller than him?
I have seen a lot of guys like this like they act all tough around people they knwo they can beat and guys smaller than them, but then when they see a man bigger than them they cowar away.
blondfrog
Master Age: 34 How can I stop being afraid in my relationship?
I'm having a relationship with this sweet guy. It's been almost a year now and he's a dream. Still I overthink every word he says and every situation he's/we're in. I've been cheated on a lot in previous relationships and...
Anonymous
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