Search Results: 30 year old guys

Have you gone through this?
Why do you think they do it?

I used to get this all the time off guys when i was a bit younger.

It still happens now,
but strangely i get it more off of much older guys (30-60 years old) they make fun of the way i look (at work) & call me a "goblin" & say that i can't get any guys!
Is it to lower the girl's self esteem?

I know girls also make fun of guy's appearances, just saying, before someone calls me sexist

So I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years
He had a bad childhood (his dad was abusive - beating him and his mum) and then he kicked my boyfriend out when he was 18
So ever since he was 18, he has been living by himself.
And he doesn't have much friends either
He's had 2 previous girlfriends but they were never THAT serious (only lasted 6 months max)

I'm his longest relationship

So anyway, lately he has been upset and I asked whats wrong:
HIM - I've been alone for 10 years now, I have a girlfriend which is you, but I still feel alone, I really wish we could live together so I can wake up to someone, can't we just live together?
ME - I mean I need time, I still want to live with my parents and save abit more
HIM - Whats your goals? How long are you planning to stay with your parents?
ME - I don't know..
HIM - I really need a REAL partner, I will become a certified police officer within 2 years, and after that, I know I'll be stable to get married and have kids, would you be ready after 2 years?
ME - I don't know.. I can't really put a timeline, don't pressure me
HIM - Im not pressuring you, Im just telling you how I feel and my future goals, because if you're not ready to fully commit after 2 years from now, then I need to find someone else?
ME - so you want to be with someone else? You're thinking of it?
HIM - No.. Im a patient guy, but I'll be 30 in 2 years time, Im getting old, I want to get married, I want to have a family, that's all Im saying...

I don't really know what to do..
I love him but I feel pressured :\

Dustin is 19 years old. He's homeless, has no family what so ever. He caught the flu, passed out in public and went to the hospital. When he woke up he thought. Oh my god I'm fucked. And started shivering. He got treatment for his inflection. One day he saw another guy in there who had his family run in there to see him. Dustin saw the love and support the guys family gave him and Dustin wanted to kill himself he felt so bad. When Dustin got out he had a bill of 30 thousand dollars but the bill collectors could never find Dustin because he had no location.