Search Results: How did you find out you ve been cheated on

Do all men cheat?

I've seen many couples who's relationship is ruined because the men is unfaithful and it got me thinking that marriage is pretty much pointless because my husband will get bored and find another women

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I believe him or no? Should I message her?

So I've been dating this guy for about 1 month now He has been treating me right so far - taking me out to dates often during the week, holding my hand, showing affections in public, etc We made it official last week He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I've been dating this guy for about 1 month now He has been treating me right so far - taking me out to dates often during the week, holding my hand, showing affections in public,

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Relationships

Should I message his ex girlfriend or no?

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I've been dating this guy for about 1 month now He has been treating me right so far - taking me out to dates often during the week, holding my hand, showing affections in public,

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Flirting

Girls, Girls what would you think if your boyfriend was texting with a girl he met in class?

We’ve been together for two years and we’ve never had issues in the past involving another person. Well I had a bad feeling about this girl he told me about how she came to be she sat next to him in class and she asked to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should I get my girlfriend pregnant?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I've been dating my girlfriend for almost five years now. She is my friend's youngest sister. I'm 28 and she turns 20 this August. She hasn't gone to college yet because she wanted to

I've been dating my girlfriend for almost five years now. She is my friend's youngest sister. I'm 28 and she turns 20 this August. She hasn't gone to college yet because she wanted to take a few off to figure out what she really wanted to do in life before rushing into a college program. I'm afraid that she'll grow apart and distant because she will probably live on campus and go to parties without me, and probably meet another guy. I know the relationship I have with her is longer than most people stay together now. Even married couples probably don't make it past a few years now. But if she has a baby then she'll focus more on the kid than other guys. I'm fine with supporting her and she already told me she doesn't really believe in abortion. She only thinks abortion is acceptable if a girl is raped, if incest was involved, if carrying the child would end the mother's life, or if the baby had something like down syndrome or some other problem. So if I get girlfriend pregnant she is definitely going to keep it but I know she doesn't feel ready to have a child. What should I do? I'm really afraid if I don't get her pregnant that she'll find some other guy when she starts college in September. I haven't talked to her about my concern she will meet some other guy but I know most girls would probably leave to experience other guys. Should I ask her to marry me instead of getting her pregnant? If she says she isn't ready to marry then do I get her pregnant? Like, if I get her pregnant she will keep the child and most guys in college won't date single moms so I know I'd be safe. She wouldn't go to parties too often either. I don't think my girlfriend is a party girl but when girls go to college and live on campus, it changes most girls. I really love this girl so I don't want to lose her to some other guy. All the other girls I dated cheated or they broke-up with me to experience other guys because YOLO. One of the girls that broke up with me really told me that was why.

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Relationships

boyfriend is getting very distant from me. what does this mean?

he's never home, rarely talks to me (compared to how much he used to/normally would), and doesn't sleep in bed with me anymore here's more detail about these things... never home: will be gone in the morning to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why can’t my cheating ex leave me alone?

It’s been 3 months since i found out. For the first month or two, we tried to make it work. We got back together for a few days, then it ended. But, we’d argue back and forth. I finally realized this stress isn’t worth it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Lost confidence in dating?

I’ve lost confidence because I really don’t have a social life and feel like I can’t compete with other men my age. My life took a bad turn after my last relationship and I started abusing alcohol and drugs. One thing led...

jasongodfrey88

Xper 2 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

How do cheaters feel when you move on?

I found out my boyfriend (now ex) of 1.5 years had been cheating on me. I found out about 3 months ago. I decided about a month ago that it is time to move on, and so, I’ve been doing that. I met someone new, and he makes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

First girlfriend for 4 years is it worth trying anymore?

Okay so I've had one girlfriend and I'm 21 we dated for 4 years about. To start off I love this girl no matter what. She will always have a place in my heart. However in 2015 I went to basic training for the army and at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Are most people these days unfaithful?

Well I've seen on a number of post where guys say the most important thing is to find a woman that is loyal you know like most people these days are not and its so rare to find one who doesn't, am curious to hear what you...

lomimore

Xper 7 Age: 28

Well I've seen on a number of post where guys say the most important thing is to find a woman that is loyal you know like most people these days are not and its so rare to find one who

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Break Up & Divorce

Complicated hearbreak?

I have children with the guy we've been together for 6 years he has taken me through so much we split he's had a child and eventually I got tired of everything in the cheating and move to a different state with our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, My ex and I split up around 18 mths ago (no one cheated) we have two teenage children. What is going on with my ex, Is this normal behaviour?

I've had a couple of girlfriends and I've accepted that its over. My ex on the other hand is telling me, when we argue, that we will never be together again (which I know, but she keeps saying it!). A few months back...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

To the Jealous Types -- Don't Sweat It.

Someone once said to me that jealousy is the best compliment. I always thought of that person as an idiot. So, you're at the bar, party or another type of social gathering, and you see your significant other (SO) over...

MadManInBlueBox

Xper 5 Age: 41

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Relationships

Am I an asshole?

So I've been in a committed relationship for six years now. We've had our ups and downs, just like everyone else. We have a young boy, and although my spouse and i get along and make a pretty good team, I can't help but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend keeps cheating. What's the right thing to do?

We've been dating for over 2 years & this is the fourth time. He isn't going to do counseling so that isn't an option. He doesn't know that I know yet. This is the fourth time I find out he's cheating with the same girl...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Do I Look?

Honest Opinions would really be appreciated! Trying to establish if the hard work is paying off?

It's been a couple years now since the first photo. 2016 to exact and while I know I've made progress I have yet to see progress where I really need it to appear. The journey started at 389 and has now traveled all the...

Dragzonne95

Xper 4 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Does it get easier to date after your first love?

Im 30 and I was a lot late to the dating game. I was married before this past relationship. Me and my ex husband were best friends, to say i loved him would be a truth stretch i loved him in a sence. I met my recent ex...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How can I over come this?

so I was pregnant with this boys child and from day one he wanted me to get an abortion we weren’t together when I was pregnant but he would say ‘if u don’t get an abortion il kill myself’ ‘il pay you’ and was promising...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I'm being blackmailed into staying in a relationship. HELP?

I've been dating Ed for a little over two years. I live alone in the city that I'm in & I have no family here. When I moved in with Gigi I opened up to her about Ed, she told me to stay away from him but I kept seeing...

Anonymous

(36-45)