Search Results: asking for trouble

My ex told me that the reason we broke up was because I was always trying to change him?

My ex and I recently ended it because he said that all I ever wanted was more from him. Our first Valentine's Day he didn't have any reservations nor get me anything and I told him I would've liked flowers at least. When...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I started really changing after the loss of my friends. Is this a good or bad thing?

After the end of highschool, I've been seeing my old friends less and less. At first, this sent me spiraling down a bit since I relied on them a lot. Hell, I still get depressed because of it every now and then. But...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Should I at least message him Happy Thanksgiving?

So about a week ago I told my ex friends with benefits that I didn't want to sleep with him anymore, and we sort of stopped talking. I feel bad because he is from a different country and has no family to celebrate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Met someone. How to open/loosen up and ask her out?

I met her at my friends bday party. I had trouble opening up and making conversation. I'm afraid she thought I was boring or not interested. I recently went through a painful rejection with someone else where there were...

KMatthewI33

Xper 4 Age: 42

Dating

Should I go for it, or don't embarrass myself? do you think the feeling is mutual?

I do like him... well... he looks to be about 36 he is the bus driver, im 32 female passenger but I look young... anyway he stares at me and smiles with all 32 teeth showin, (he is fluffy, im normally not into teddy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

What should I do to approach my crush in order to ask him out?

I'm having a bit of troubling asking this guy out. He's Latino (Mexican) and he's a Senior so handsome, intelligent, well-educated, sophisticated and athletic. Although, I told him that i liked him this particular day and...

Sweet_Sour

Xper 4 Age: 25

Relationships

My personality kills our relationship?

Dear girls and guys, I'm a girl, 21 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We have already faced so many things together. We had a year without fights, the death of my mother, him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Does my friend like my boyfriend, or is she just being friendly?

A few months ago my friend Sarah asked me if I could help her look for a job. I passed her CV onto my boyfriend Ryan, who works at a Solicitors. There was a job opening in his department so Sarah was asked to interview...

SammyM91

Xper 4 Age: 34

Family & Friends

Severe anxiety due to loud abusive brother. Advice?

I can't afford a psychologist right now, which is why I am asking on here. I am living with parents, studying at uni, doing a part time job, paying my own bills. I have been diagnosed with severe anxiety and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Guys I have a question what would you do and is this wrong? (kinda long)?

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I'm asking cause I know my mom and my sister are annoyed by this but I never noticed until they pointed it out and now that I see it it's starting to have me thinking differently

So I'm asking cause I know my mom and my sister are annoyed by this but I never noticed until they pointed it out and now that I see it it's starting to have me thinking differently and I can see why it's annoying them. So my brother's girlfriend is living with us she's a lilyounger than I am by a year or a couple months? Not really sure. I forgot. Well my brother is 27 and he works all the time and is overweight he's almost 400 lbs& has me doing everything for him but he's spoiled rotten. He gets his food made for him everyday and if he's not served he won't serve himself. He always wants me to do everything for him but his girlfriend never does anything for him cause she gets mad at him saying he should do it himself. So he is scared 2 ask her so he ask me all the time even though she's sitting right next to him. So what's annoying my family is that my brother has a bald spot on the back of his head and he always wants me to spray it and hide it with this powder stuff he got online every morning. He wakes me up. No lie it is kind of annoying cause I have trouble going to sleep at night and once I'm asleep I'm asleep& it's hard for me to go back to sleep and he wakes me up at like 9:30 in the morning. That's the same time his girlfriend is up cause they leave to work around the same time. So my mom is annoyed that he won't wake her up instead and wakes us up. She always threatens my brother and says that she won't do his hair for him & to not wake her up. My mom thinks my brother is scared of her that's why he doesn't wake her up. The other day I woke up & did his hair and as soon as he left she came out of the room. I was thinking "Why didn't she do it for him?"So I'm wondering guys would you break up with your girlfriend if she did this and didn't do anything for you like cook, clean, or help you hide your insecurities? Or do you think he should do all these things himself? My mom believes that you should spoil your man & take care of them. My brother's girlfriend is more self centered.

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Education & Career

Can I get into trouble for asking people from a Donald Trump rally for money and then donate it to a illegal immigrant family I knew?

I went to a Donald Trump rally and pretended I was supporting Trump and I am African American so everyone got really happy and gave me donations. I lied to them about supporting Trump. I actually voted for Hilary. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

I think my crushes friend likes me. What should I do here?

So, this weekend I went to a co-workers Halloween party. I am newly single, and needed to get out. Plus there is a co-worker that I have a huge crush on and wanted to hang out with her. It all ended up working out...

stlDesigner

Xper 2 Age: 39

Flirting

What's a good way to ask out an introverted server?

Servers present an unusual circumstance in that asking them out while they're working will disrupt their work and potentially get them into trouble. The server-customer relation will also complicate matters in that...

theharlequin

Yoda Age: 48

Health & Fitness

Physicians- would you be insulted?

I work for a nonprofit physician owned insurance company. I had a nice retired physician in my office asking for coverage for charity work, which in my country is protected by charitable immunity but I get this question a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Rejected me, but now maybe likes me?

I would like to start off by saying I tried to ask her out, but she rejected me twice saying the first time she was "busy" then the second time she said "I would but I'm talking to someone right now". I respected that and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend trouble?

OK, so my ex boyfriend as of two months pops up today asking if we could talk. Im so scared and nervous because he was my first everything and I can honestly say I loved him and still have some feeling towards him but the...

simplynaïve

Xper 4 Age: 25

Dating

What I Learned From 24 Hours on Tinder as a 17-Year-Old

On a whim, I decided to download Tinder in the bright and early hours of Wednesday morning. (No kidding, it was 2 am… usually when I get all of my brilliant ideas lmfao). Here's what happened: The age on my Facebook...

Luci92

Editor Age: 27

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Family & Friends

Rant, can't get transportation to meet others to play Pokémon go, any ideas?

Long story short I have no friends or social life. I play Pokémon go which is huge where I live. I want to meet other players to go out with make friends and it's something I can talk about easily. I joined a group and...

mrsingle

Explorer Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

We broke up and I want him back. He's sending me mixed signals. What should I do?

I started seeing this guy in July. My past relationships had been disasters (cheated on, got dumped right after sex). So I'm not quite confident in dating. In September, he came at my house saying he wasn't sure if he...

leahn95

Xper 5 Age: 30

Family & Friends

How do I ask my parents to loosen up their rules?

hi there! i need help on knowing how to confront my parents about loosening the reigns a little bit. i am a senior in high school, yet my parents are still implementing rules that they did when i was a freshman. they...

Anonymous

(25-29)