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I love my boyfriend, but damn his behavior with his dog! He rescued her, but he barely takes care of her. When I first met him, he was over feeding her beef liver and he never brushes her teeth or hair, and her teeth are becoming gross because of it. He also over feeds her treats, and now she is 5 pounds overweight... and he STILL GIVES HER TREATS. She sheds like crazy and he lets her sleep in our tiny ass bed (currently living in a travel trailer). She isn't well trained, she won't come when you call her, she is the type of dog that will claw you if you stop petting her, and she isn't leash trained at ALL. He lets her lick his face up to 2 minutes at a time and then he tries to turn around and kiss me 🤢 I love dogs and I grew up taking care of a dog, but I have reached the end of my rope. I can't stand being around his dog anymore and it's now a deal-breaker because he gets offended if I mention any of this and he thinks his dog is a perfect angel. Would you date someone with a dog, well trained or not? Would you be willing to take on the responsibility of their pet?

In casual relationship with a guy I've known for YEARS. Lost contact for awhile and reconnected after his divorce.

In October, BEFORE we started having sex, he tagged a girl in some FB posts, mostly about their mutual football interests, didn't look romantic or anything. We weren’t talking much around this time, so I didn’t think it was a big deal.

Since November, we have been spending more time together. We aren't exclusive, both single & free to see whoever we want. I was seeing someone, but stopped and he IS aware of that. All I asked was if he were seeing/wanted to see anyone, to be honest about it.

BUT, last night I went to his house & he had a couple of Christmas photo cards on his fridge; one was of a co-worker and her family, the other of the girl he tagged on FB, she was with her kids in the pic, like the one above (she's divorced too). So, I asked "who is that?" knowing already who she was, but I was curious what he would say because he has never mentioned her to me. He told me it was his sister in law & his niece/nephew? He has ONE sister, and it was not her. WTF? He's normally the kind of guy that is honest, I mean like brutally honest, so what gives?
I want to confront him about it. It just really pisses me off because he lied when he didn't have to and that is a deal breaker.