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I completely cheated, I have had an emotional connection with a man over a year. Let’s call him bob. I tell my boyfriend that bob likes me and that bob wants me to leave him and be with him. My boyfriend could pretty much care less, he thinks bob is not an attractive person and that what we have is too strong.

But me and my boyfriend haven’t been great I tell my boyfriend I’m not happy I need more emotion from him and take me on a date etc. we never go out he loves to lay around at home and he is like a wall he stares at his phone and barely talks to me.

Bob on the other hand is flirty and sweet and he has plenty of emotions. I never gave bob a chance bc I had a boyfriend. So we would harmlessly flirt but not much else.

Me and my boyfriend have a fight and we take a break. Four days later I’m with bob he knows I’m on a break. One thing leads to another and I want to give everything to bob. I litteraly take my clothes off and go for it. I have wanted to always know what me and bob have.

What we had was pretty amazing it was natural like he had been my boyfriend for the past year.

So now what !!! I have a boyfriend who loves me but don’t fulfill my needs even after I beg and plead but I love him. Then bob a man I know so much about but don’t know what I have with him. He also is seeing 2 other girls.

Does bob think this is just a hook up or does he want more? In the past I would say he wants me but it’s been a long year. If I get back with my boyfriend will he even accept me if I tell him?

What the hell do I do?

So recently I’ve been talking to this guy that I work with, we actually ended up sleeping together this past weekend. It feels like we have this deep emotional connection and he’s told me things that he’s never told anyone and I’ve told him things I’ve never told anyone in return. I just found out yesterday that two months ago one of my other coworkers sucked his dick, and that a week before he slept with me for the first time he went on a road trip with his ex, I’m assuming they hooked up. Now I know we’re not dating, and I know I shouldn’t have given it up this quickly, got wrapped up in the heat of the moment is all. I’m obviously into him and I believe he’s into me at least a little bit, I spoke with his best friend who said if anyone would change him for the better it would be me. Guys, what’s your take on this? Should I be mad about his past experiences before me, or is that all they were— past experiences before me?