How long does it take to develop an emotional connection in a relationship?

Do you think you develop an emotional connection the first time you meet? Or does it take time to develop? I dont think you can develop an emotional connection with someone during a one night fling but my husband disagrees what do you think?

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  • There are many factors, playing into that.
    Firstly, it obviously depends on the two individuals, involved in that situation.
    Secondly, it depends on the initial situation itself and what you make out of it.
    Do you usually meet in groups or in private? Do you talk about casual themes or do you allow yourself to be open, personal and intimate? Do you feel attracted purely look wise (yes.. That influences how you act towards somebody, wether you want it or not).
    It can take a week for some or up to a year for others.

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    • About me and my girlfriend.. It took us one week to get together and that was purely an online relationship at first.
      That might sound absolutely ridiculous when you hear it like that but it's really not.
      Since we couldn't meet, we spent all of our time talking.. Up to multiple hours each day, we wouldn't do anything but to talk about ourselves.. Our feelings, our life, our pleasures, our pain.. Everything that's usually supposed to be private and personal.. We were separated from any other form of influence, which usually come when you meet new people, outside of our video chatting and honestly.. I felt like I knew her better after that one week, than some of my best friends..
      There were other things involved too that connected us further but these are more private matters, so I won't tell about that unless you really want to know about it.

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  • Ideally, I think an emotional connection should be something that’s there BEFORE you start a relationship.

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  • It depends on the people it depends on the chemistry that was to share and also it depends on the attraction it could be a day you could be when you first meet it could be 2 weeks to months nobody has a timeframe really when it happens it just happens

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  • I think it depends about your first connections, that ones that made it happens. It's like when you open a door in a place that you don't know what you will find in. But, mainly, you need to think what was your purposes, your expectations that make you choose to open that door and enter in.

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  • Everyone is different, but if someone develops emotions on a one night stand, its not the right kind of emotions. In some countries like Finland you usually have sex with the person first before deciding whether or not to pursue them, so who knows.

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  • It's possible. Someone out there was born for you. If you connect with this person, it's instantaneous. A person that fits the puzzle to make you perfectly whole, no gaps inbetween.

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  • Liquor can change the entire dynamics of the situation... I am completely satisfied in my marriage but have found fatal attractions while out with friends... emotional connections can be found easily. But lasting, loving and serious relationship are built... not found.

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  • It's entirely based upon the person; their age, background, emotional needs etc. You could get one guy who could take years to full emotionally connect with a person but another guy could take as little as a few hours.

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  • There is no time on what you feel. It can be one night or it can be years. It varies really. Society teaches us that early is not logical, when the heart is involved logic is often thrown out the window.

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  • The time involved in an emotional connection can not be determined in any amount of time. It has to be felt by the individual. Variables such as ones diet or lack of excersize, can change ones emotions chemically...

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  • Takes time to develop and it’s different with everyone as to how long

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  • Depends on the relationship and people in it. It can vary.

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  • That varies from person to person but I think 3-4 months is the gateway for developing something genuine.

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  • Spending more time , will make it. I thing 6 month after relationship will make it emotional and powerful

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  • Nah. In one night that's impossible because there is a huge difference between you like a girl, and develop in to love

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  • Love at first sight. So you can develop emotional connection in a relationship at your first meeting.

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  • It usually takes me 3 months or more to have a good emotional connection.

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  • It depends on how open and connected the people are in my opinion, sharing interests and a certain degree of care

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  • phenomenal sex + 30 days and she starts getting her hooks in.

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  • It can be instantly, it's the chemistry between the two of you.

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  • It takes you as long as it takes you. There's definitely no set time frame.

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  • It takes just a few minutes of deep and down from the heart conversation !

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  • It at least takes me a month

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  • I don't know, the more we hang out.

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  • 6 months. Mininum.

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  • Yes you can. Depends on how strong.

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  • I think it only takes a moment

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  • after a kiss maybe..

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  • some days I can develop an emotional

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  • It's about how our heart meets

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  • I think it needs a few weeks

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  • 1week only

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  • How long is a piece of string?

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  • 1 hour of foreplay

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  • Two days serious talk without lies

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  • How are you

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  • Can be instant

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  • How are you doing

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  • It's possible but not 100%

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  • It's take time.

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  • Less than a lifetime

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