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Hi,

It has been hell finding a girl to spend time with and have a meanful relationship with: I joined POF. com which is very depressing. The 1st girl I talk to on there talked to me for 3 months and the day before the 1st date she cancels and said she wants to be friends even though we were still friends on facebook I saw that she chose another guy over me. The next couple years on there was girls leading me on to build their ego. Next was a girl who I had a crush on in high school. She went through a very bad breakup so I tried to cheer her up. We did go on a date and she said she liked spending time with me that day. When I asked her to consider me for a relationship she said she doesn't want to date for a LONG while. Last was a girl I recently met. She seemed she was nice and pretty but one problem she is hangs around with drunks and beggers who beg for money and drug users. Most of the time I spend with her is when she's with those people. She said if I dont like hanging around them then I can't talk to her anymore. All the girls I try to introduce myself in public are very shallow every time I say hi to them. Can I find that one special girl in my lifetime or did I get cursed of being single forever?

Heya, just wanted to get a few opinions and to see whether I am right or not.

I am a while male man living in Canada and have come across a variety of cultures when dating.

Now when I have a conversation with an Indian lady she seems extremely interested and shows every single attribute of interest - long answers, asks questions, flirts, shows interest, smiley faces, etc...

For instance I approached and talked to this one Indian girl who ended up asking ME for my number and showing every sign of interest.

However when it comes time to ask her out, they would always say they are busy and available the next week, in a very nice and sympathetic way of course.

I was wondering what you Indian girls are thinking? Are you:

A: Playing hard to get? or
B: Are not interested?

Problem with B is that they show sooooo much interest and are sooo nice and seem very very interested!! Literally show every single sign of interest in the textbook. But it's the fact that they ALL seem busy this week and can only do the next that's problematic, aka trying to put the guy off?

Any inside opinions from Indian women? Are you trying to determine how loyal the man will be? Why else would you be so nice and waste your energies on leading them on while not being interesed?

Any opinions much appreciated, and please don't hit me with the "race doesn't matter" because it does, every culture has their own system of dating and testing.

Thanks!