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Started seeing a guy I met on OKC. After a few dates and a weekend spent together, we became lovers. When I asked him what our weekend (i. e. Becoming lovers) meant to him he said that he wanted to date me exclusively, he was going to take down his OKC profile and focus on seeing where our relationship can go.

I logged in to OKC to see if he had take his profile down and he hasn't. He also hasn't logged on to OKC since Friday, which is before our weekend together, and we had the exclusivity convo on Sunday. I also know he's busy at work and doesn't have internet in his house.

Two things:

1) Should I be worried that he hasn't taken his profile?

2) I don't want him to think that I'm still looking at guys. But when he logs on he can see that I logged on. I'm on to see if he is keeping to his word and working to mirror his behavior.

However, I want to trust that he is just busy with work and that he's not deleted it because of that. He calls me every day and is wonderful at keeping to his word.

Should I take my profile down?

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So I play a lot of volleyball and I met my best guy friend playing. A couple weeks later a group of guys were going two stepping at one of my favorite places and they invited me to invite my girl friends because they liked my girl friends. So we went and of course I had quite a bit to drink and him and I kind of hit it off, but I kept him at arms length because I have a boyfriend. After that we stayed in touch because we run in similar circles. It seemed without even trying we became really close. He got upset with me because he didn't understand how I could be in a relationship and not with him when he sees all of the potential we could have. We discussed how we need to be friends and keep our distance. My current relationship can be best described as how I imagine a marriage would be. We do our own thing a lot and just enjoy being around each other. It is hard for me to see my guy friend anymore even though we are with a group of people because we are so drawn to eachother. So what is keeping me from being with him? I do really like the person I am in a relationship with and the guy I'm with is very into his career and preparing for the future much of like how I am. My guy friend is in his prime age and having fun and finishing school. He is 26 and it bothers me the amount he goes out, but then complains about where he currently lives (with his parents). Considering I have been on my own since a young age this is hard for me to understand how you can complain for what you don't have and yet do nothing about it. What are your thoughts? I know the guy friend would love me the way I need to be loved, but if I truly felt that strong why am I not with him? I also don't think you should ever leave someone for someone else. The main issue with my relationship is there is no passion, little intimacy.