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I just turned 18 and right before my birthday I was diagnosed with a scalp confined alopecia, bascially my body is rejecting my hair on my head, and I had to shave whats left to avoid looking old, to me personally it was just hair but I really worry what girls my age will think, see I really wanted to be married in my 20's and I have high sandards, don't get me wrong personality matter and is needed but I won't date below what I find to be at least a 7 as far as looks and well... yeah I'm bald already, so I'm just very worried because I see so many girls say "when I'm older I won't care" and I dont want to miss out on dating in my early 20's. So girls be honest... is a bald head enough of a turn off to most that with my standards combined I'll have to wait? Or can I still be attractive bald to girls this young? I do have a good face for it and a lot of people compliment my eyes so I pull it off good for a skinny white guy haha, but still be honest if you think I still have a good shot with my standards intact this young great, if not then well at least your honest..

I have a close friend for almost 9 years who has been there for me during some rocky times and relationships and I've done the same for her.

We always can hang out and have fun regardless, we always have each others back and a platonic relationship. She is kind of a wild card in terms she "gets around" a lot with both men and women and does some drugs (weed, ecstasy). We both don't find each other attractive, we're almost close family hence I call her sis most of the time.

I've never judged or pretty much cared for the most part, It doesn't bother me besides I don't the same thing. However I feel like my past ex's and current girlfriend was uncomfortable about it but never said anything out of respect.

How would you feel?

https://scontent-ord1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xpf1/v/t1.0-9/11903729_1246880748693857_2092178746151578466_n.jpg?efg=eyJpIjoidCJ9&oh=f7c263ac0c0fc2a29f23671b9e98c682&oe=5676AE68 PLEASE NOTE: I can't grow hair even if I tried, it's not fully by choice.

I've seen guys post about hair-loss and baldness, and in a way it comforts me to know I'm not alone, and I posted a pic of me before asking if my head shape was decent but I gotta wonder how I would rate in the young dating scene, anyway I have a scalp condition called TE, it would take too long to explain it but I can't grow scalp hair and I decided to shave my head, (I'm 20) and I'll be starting college soon and would appreciate honesty on if I can have confidence in my looks, so girls if I approached you would you be put off or turned off by my bald head? Be honest please, I honestly say looks are a deal breaker factor for me so please return the honesty favor. Also I was always told to put two good pics and one not so good one so people know the whole view in pictures that's why there's the crappy mirror selfie haha. Personally if I knew I could get an attractive girl I'll really like I wouldn't give two shits about no hair, so while I am concerned it hasn't destroyed my self image like some guys.

NOTE!!!:please only answer the poll if you are lighter skinned, nothing against darker races but I seen it asked here before if darker complexions like shaved heads more and I'm doing a study about races finding different traits aesthetically pleasing for school and want to factor this in, so if you're black or darker skinned feel free to leave a comment but please only do the poll if you're lighter complexioned, as that's my control group in the study. (For this section at least) Please don't take that as against any race etc it's just for a study...

but yeah girls could you be attracted to me if I approached you? Would you give a guy like me a shot? (Assume personality works and that you're available, just base on physical for this question please)