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My boyfriend who's 25 told me he had a friend from his hometown that he slept with once when they were 16, but otherwise was friends with. He told me he'd like for us to meet when I go to visit his hometown with him, which i thought was weird. He said we'd get along well, and I said I might be down to meet her but was a little upset. i told him I didn't want him hanging out with her alone and without me telling him to he promised he wouldn't go see her even though he said that he didn't see her that way at all, they just liked to play music together. (Musicians)

so then a few weeks later, I quickly not on purpose glanced at his phone and he quickly changed the app. I asked why and he said he didn't wanna fight but then admitted he had just looked at a text from st Patrick's day from her and was replying and didn't want me to get mad and jealous that she texted him.. he told me who it was and didn't have to

So I've been dating my boyfriend (25) for nearly two years. He's from a different state but now lives in California. So he has a friend from when he was 16, that he slept with one time. He's told me there's nothing there and that he'd love for us to meet, and that she'd adore me. So He went to go see her the last time he visited back home, and I got kind of jealous and told him when he got back that I wanted to be there the next time he saw her and didn't want them alone etc. He promised me he wouldn't see her if I wasn't there and so I thought we were cool. I admit I have always been overly jealous of other girls and stuff.

Tonight he and I were sitting on the couch and he quickly changed the screen when I glanced over. I asked him what that was about, and he replied that he didn't wanna fight. I finally coaxed it out of him and he said that he had just seen a message from the girl saying happy st Patrick's day from a few days ago and was replying and didn't want me to get mad at him.

im confused because he had said he wanted us to meet and then did this? Is there something going on?