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Is it because of insecurity?
What's your opinions and experiences?

I'm dealing with a guy, who doesn't directly control me ( he never says anything to my face, but instead behind my back! ), but tells people not to talk to me and he seems to think that he can ruin & control my friendships/relationships with other guys! How pathetic.

He seems to think he can control who talks to me! Wtf! 😠🤯

He seems jealous, but he says that he doesn't like me and doesn't want me,
so why does he feel the need to tell other guys not to talk to me?

Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 and a half years
I've had trust issues because of my past relationships
So I always keep on accusing him of talking to other girls, cheating
When he's actually not
He let me know his password to his phone and laptop
But I kept letting my insecurities get the best of me
Even if he has introduced me to his whole family and always inviting me to family events and always putting pictures of us on his social media
But I keep thinking he's hiding something
And when he uploads selfies on his social media, I keep thinking he's doing it for other girls
And then he got fed up

So today he ended things with me
He said he's sick of my trust issues and insecurities

If he truly cared and loved me, he wouldve stayed and be more patient and work things out right? and understand me?

Me and my now x-boyfriend (of 2 and a half years) got into a big argument about him not meeting all my family
He thinks im not being serious
he's had 3 previous girlfriends but im the first girl out of all of his exes that he introduced to his WHOLE family

Im his longest relationship too
And he's my longest too

And he's always the one more affectionate and always the one initiating calling every night before bed
And he's always the one talking when we are together
But im quiet person in general
And he wanted to move in together and wake up to me every morning but I couldnt move out because of my situation at the moment
And i have super trust issues and insecurities from my past relationship and then i put it on him
And then he got fed up

So anyway he decided to break up with me because he thinks we are not compatible and lost interest in me
And i was so heartbroken!

I've been there for him all the time though
And supported him
And he has met my parents and siblings
And introduced him to my friends circle when he doesn't have much friends

Then i said "u never appreciated me"
And he said "maybe i never had feelings for you"
That was a stab in my heart.

Can someone really fake a relationship for over 2years?
And never had feelings?