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Im probably paranoid because he's such a good looking guy but when we first met he used to call me up from work but I never answered cause I didn't like phone calls. 😅 And he'd ask me to come over to his house almost twice a week and ask if I was going to sleep over, almost begging me to every time.
And also he used to like cuddling with me a lot more and was really happy to see me every time but nowadays we see each other about twice a month or so. He's always working so much and tends to work over time nowadays.

Also he's very extroverted and Im not, and when he finds out that I send lots of voice notes to my friends and face time them he seems kind of offended because I never do that with him.
And also he talks a lot but Im shyer so I don't speak as much and he always asks if somethings wrong etc, but I guess he has kind of come to terms with that I dont speak a lot, but instead he goes constantly on his phone. :/

He does still occasionally ask me over, its kind of 50-50 of who asks. Sometimes he texts saying he wants me really badly. The sex is still amazing, probably better than ever but socially its kind of gone downwards? We never text each other anymore unless we're meeting up.

So is he bored of me? Or is he just stressed out (since he's usually so tired when I get there)? Or am I just overthinking things? Or is he just comfortable enough that he knows he doesn't need to constantly cuddle and text me to have me come over? And no we are not dating, we are friends with benefits.

I don't know it makes me paranoid and drives me down and messes with my mind a lot. :(

So i'm dating this guy for 5 months, we used to be classmates for over 5 years, when we took our bachelor degree, we agreed on going to the same university, but our choice was far from home, i convinced my mum, while his dad was against it, he even said some hurtful stuff like "you're ruining your future because of her", i was hurt but didn't say anything tbh.

So we're now studying in different colleges, i came back home every vacation, he never came to my place actually, i wanted to show my friends my first boyfriend, so i invited him to this event, he promised me but he didn't keep it actually and my phone was broken at that, so dumbly he sent me a text telling me not coming, then we met at night, i was upset he made me even more by saying "my dad told me that family is important than her".

These stuffs happened two months ago, the real deal now, my birthday was last January and i wanted to be my first happy birthday since my birthdays were worst as hell, well i had to came back to my university, he sent me a really cute text but he didn't give me any present, so i didn't care much but still.

i mean it's not about money, he has enough money to buy even a flower I don't know anything makes me feel special at my day, because in his birthday, i made a surprise for him and he told me that he even cried because i wanted him to feel special on his day, but nevermind.

Valentine's day came, and also he didn't even buy me anything, even it was my first valentine with me being in a relationship, i stayed at home instead of going back to my university and skipped classes for the next day for his sake and to spent it together, but we didn't because he said the weather was bad.

Now he's trying to change from his university, he told me he sent his papers off, but his dad still against it but he let it to send its, and i know his dad wouldn't let him at the end, but after all these efforts, he told